I try to count macros, but I put calories first. So right now I'm counting calories and trying to fit into my macros but not sweating it.
I don't have much to lose so I'm much more focused on losing purely fat and retaining as much muscle as possible. My current plan is to lift heavy twice a week as a combination of retaining my muscle mass while in a deficit and as cross-training to my dance training.
I set my macros using the following MyFitnessPal post as a guideline:
http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en...xypants#latest
...which in turn linked to this post:
http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/819055
So I estimated my lean body mass at around 95 lbs and set my macros at roughly 100 grams protein, 53 grams fat, and the rest carbs to get up to 1600 calories, which I think is about my TDEE-15%. I'll likely reduce my deficit once I lose the first ten pounds.
I have no problem eating fats (all the cheese! all the dairy! all the nuts!) but I struggle to hit my protein goal, which is a bit aggressive due to my muscle retention desires. Right now I'm getting about 65 grams a day and working on more protein-rich foods to add into my diet as protein powder scares me. I also track sodium out of curiosity and calcium to help out my woman bones.
So, to summarize, I do watch my macros but rely mostly on calories. So this sounds a bit different than you're trying to do, but I decided to pop in and say no, you're not the only one watching macros!