I love Brad's church and I volunteer there but it has taken me a long time to agree with his beliefs-I was inspired to do that. He also has come to accept mine but he doesn't agree with them and I don't agree with all. But I love my church. He does sound like a good guy but I am thinking his church is very fundamental, I have learned a lot about different religions and their beliefs. And i have learned that it's the basic doctrines that count. And that we agree on. Anyhow, it has worked out for us. Funny thing, when I first met Brad, I thought he was crazy. Then I went through a transformation in my church and my eyes were opened. We did leave one church because it was too rigid. I sure know what you are saying about your head and your heart. Pray for guidance. Mima

I had that problem with my husband, but we were both Christians, so even though we didn't believe ALL the same things we just had to deal with it. I feel each person has to do what God plants in their heart..if it's wrong--God will touch their heart about an issue when it's time.