The "You!" Thread
 

Does anybody need a place to vent, a place to shout an anonymous message to someone who is getting on your nerves?

• You - I did not "trip" in a recent email I sent you. Even if I did, you have to agree that there was reason behind it. If you can't get over it, stow it, because you're starting to tan my hide.
• You - pay attention to what I have to say and change your terrible attitude. It's for your own good.
• You - don't drop off unhealthy food at my house! Ever again!
• You - please don't brag about your gifted child too much. It exhausts me.
• You - when you use something around the house, put it away! turn it off! throw out the wrapper!
• You - I can't lose weight for you. It all boils down to what you put in your mouth.
• You - when I am in your presence, I am emotionally drained and devoid of all creativity.
• You - I don't want to go on a date with you because you IMed me at 3:00 on a Friday afternoon, drunk. That is a BAD SIGN.
• You - I can only care so much about your petty little romance troubles.
• You - I can't date someone fifteen years my junior. So quit asking me out.
• You - you shouldn't be dating a married man, and you know it. I've known you for most of our lives and this is not your style. Figure out what's eating you and make it right.

Oh my, that felt good.

Good idea :D

You - I would think for once you could act like a man and have a mature discussion with me about what you told me rather than avoiding me every time I try to talk. You can sit there and feel sorry for yourself or you can do something about it. And you wonder why I don't want you anymore...! :mad:

And....thats it. Life is surprisingly good right now.

No thanks... I have enough problems being rude without TRYING to be. I think I'd rather keep my friends. :)

Originally Posted by Misti in Seattle:
No thanks... I have enough problems being rude without TRYING to be. I think I'd rather keep my friends. :)

Sorry to offend ... I was crabby yesterday.

I honestly don't see how this is offensive. Nobody is naming anyone and it's a good idea to let off some steam every once in a while if this the format one chooses to let it off.

Just my 2 cents.

YOU AND YOU - Quit whining to me about your money problems. You make twice as much as we do, stop being so darn stupid and make a budget. You will never get a loan for a home when you have so many outstanding debts under $100 each - DUH! Its not that hard to figure out...get your head out of your a**
Oh! and butt out of my marriage, its none of your business.

You - no I don't trust your friends, I don't have to. They've backstabbed me too often - even after all the crap I did for them! I'm gonna be so glad when we move, I'll finally be rid of them and they can't follow us cuz they'd never save the money to do it. And don't you ever tell them that they can just drop in anytime and stay with us! They can't! I won't accept anyone doing that except your mom!

You and you - if you think spending $75 on a car repair is expensive, how on earth do you think you can pay for a child.... you were crazy to get pregnant right now. wow. you could have planned this really well - instead you are in so much debt that you can't even start to pay off, you can't file bankruptcy or you'll lose your home and you can't even get your home equity loan paid off.... and you want a baby on top of it??? You are very naive about what you are getting into.

You--please stop interrupting me while I am trying to get to the bottom of the huge pile of work I have on my desk with useless questions, comments, gossip etc!! Just hush!!

Originally Posted by jules1216:
You--please stop interrupting me while I am trying to get to the bottom of the huge pile of work I have on my desk with useless questions, comments, gossip etc!! Just hush!!

Amen sistergirl!

Good "You!" Comments
 

OK, today I am in a better mood and I have some good "You!" Comments.

• You - Thanks for sitting next to me, dragging me out shopping on lunch breaks. You've been a social lifesaver for me here.
• You - I'm glad we started walking together. And thanks for complimenting me on my shirt today.
• You - I was so pleased that you remembered to go to your doctor appointment today, and I didn't even have to remind you!
• You - I hope you want to interview me and hire me for this great position at my old job. I would totally appreciate a lucrative opportunity at such a great company.
• You - You puzzle me, entice me, enrage me, elate me, make me skip, make me cry.
• You - I knew if anybody could fix my broken technology, it would be you. And in less than an hour, no less!
• You - You are the best friend I could ever ask for, and I am going to be sad-sad-sad when you move out east.

YOU! - stop telling me you want to lose weight and eat healthier when you keep on going out to those parties and drinking all those drinks, and skipping out on our planned workouts! IF YOU WANT THIS TO HAPPEN, you MUST stick to it! 20 minutes of pilates for the entire week doesn't do much for you, so stop whining to me if you can't lose weight!

Originally Posted by Lucky13:
I honestly don't see how this is offensive. Nobody is naming anyone and it's a good idea to let off some steam every once in a while if this the format one chooses to let it off.
Just my 2 cents.

Well LOL you might want to note that the words were put into my mouth... I certainly never said I was offended! :) But I can see this thread is definitely NOT the place to have a bit of fun so I'll go dance elsewhere. :dance:

You: Thank You For That Hug. It Really Helped. :hug:

YOU - STOP telling me that you worry about your weight when it gets too LOW, at 106 lbs. THAT is approximately how much my right arm weights.
YOU - Thanks for making me a healthy balanced dinner tonight and for making sure I ate properly so I wouldn't junk out later!
YOU - STOP telling me that my size is TOO BIG for you. I checked out the label on your clothes when we changed into our swimsuits at the pool today, and you are ONE SIZE LARGER THAN ME!!!
YOU - Thanks for starting this thread!!! I feel terrific now!!!
:)

what an awsome way to vent with out hurting anyone or taking it out on those we love!

you~ after all the insensitive/rude/hurtful things you have said AND done my presence at your surprise party will be non-existant-why would i go?

you~my decision to get a puppy does not depend on my "dog sitting" in a months time

you~I know Leukemia is a good cause, I HAD IT, but thanks fo emailing me to tell me that!

ok thats all!

You - thank you for making light of my heavy and difficult conversation with a particular male last night. Talking to you always makes me realize to not take things so dang seriously. :)

:D

YOU! - stop telling me I need to get right with god! Your religion is NOT my religion and I'd appreciate it if you would just keep your holy-rollin to yourself!

YOU! - you are my best friend but you seem to find it difficult to spend time with me. That hurts. :(

YOU! - whoever you are, STOP DRIVING WITH YOUR BLINKER ON! geesh....

You- Thanks for entering my drawing :) I hope you win! Feel free to share the website with EVERYONE.. I love feedback, and when people decide to buy something, that's awesome too :)

You- Thank you again for being so incredible. I can't believe someone who has been through so much can still be so positive and so loving...

You- bite me. Seriously, just because the truth hurts doesn't give you the right to make up vicious lies to try and get-even. We are pushing thirty and high school is LONG over. Grow up.

You~stop being so childish and talk to me istead of getting so "ofended"...and don't say "nothing" when I ask you what you're upset about, when CLEARLY you are upset about what just happened!

you~ stop asking me whats wrong the day after we have a dissagreement (one sided on my part as usuall), its not like you don't know why I am upset, I TOLD YOU LAST NIGHT!!! and you just rolled you eyes and wanted no part of it...grow up !

I need this thread!:D

You~ back off and just leave my son and I alone:mad: You're neither needed OR wanted!

You~make me so happy,babe!I love you!:hug:

You - stop being a dead beat dad, step up and help out
You - good luck with the replacement one, you'll dump her on her backside just like you did me

You--stop leaving the uncarpeted areas to hark up your hairballs!

You--don't act like you're deserving of a gold medal for doing something ONCE that you expect me to do EVERYDAY!

And,

You--STOP EATING THE CAT FOOD!!!!!!!

You - Stop wearing those ridiculous spaghetti strap tops in school. We all know you had a mid-life crisis boob job and that you like to wear them around for the world to see like a pair of earrings, but it's 30 below zero!! Put on a friggen sweater!! If the school girls that are flat as a board aren't allowed to wear spaghetti strap tops to school, neither should you!!

You and you - stop rolling your eyes when I mention how well my preschooler can read. I only mention it about once a week and if your kids could read this well before kindergarten, we all know you'd be talkign about it every single day. I'm just proud of my little boy.

You - you're the preschool teacher!! Stop talking about how much you drink on the weekends and how proud you are that you used to smoke pot behind the school in sixth grade!! We aren't impressed.

You - I'm too tired at night to play games...if you want to have sex and think we don't have enough...then just come on over to my side of the bed and help yourself. And if I come to your side, don't act all, "Oh, we haven't had it in a week...I didn't think we were doing it anymore..." :rolleyes:

You - go to sleep, for crying out loud!! It's eleven o'clock! I'm sick of kissing Daddy, only to have you get up and shut the door! It totally kills the mood and, it's ELEVEN O'CLOCK!! You should be SLEEPING!! And we're trying VERY HARD not to make any noise...besides...Daddy's only giving mommy a backrub ;) We don't do those kinds of things...

This is fun...I'll probably be back for more...

You~ Are driving me up the freakin' wall!!!!! Just stop it!!!

Originally Posted by :
You--don't act like you're deserving of a gold medal for doing something ONCE that you expect me to do EVERYDAY!

I am going to steal this one too!!!!! This one is a big one for me!

You --when I say "no" to the kids, I mean "no!," not for you to undermine me me and tell the kids "yes"

You--Thank you for seeing if we can scrounge up some money for me to join a gym

thanks! this is a great thread!

Poignant
 

You! The last few words you spoke to me were "Yeah, cancer sure is a b!tch." You hugged and kissed me for the first time in my life, and I knew at that time you understood you would die soon. RIP.

You! You've been too into drugs for too many years ... nobody was able to contact you to tell you your parent passed away. My heart aches for you on many levels.

You! Our politics are opposite, but dangit, Cousin, I love ya to pieces.

You! Now that your favorite sibling has passed, will you consider moving back closer to us children and your grandchildren? It hurt when you moved three hours away.

You! You drive a new Pacifica, but you can only muster up $150 a month for child support?

You! You looked fabulous in the blue flowered NSV shirt. Sissy and Step-Mom both called you skinny. Skinny, did ya hear that?

you!!!!~~ you do not deserve to be engaged!!! you are mean and treat people like crap...but I guess there is someone for everyone!

You~ should have been there for our schedualed appointment!:mad: Instead I had to wait for over an hour to see someone else!:mad:

YOU!- Stop hogging all the covers!

YOU, whoever you are~Learn how to drive a shopping cart without blocking the aisles and "driving" like a maniac!

YOU~Quit asking me for money in the same conversation that you brag about shopping for shoes, purses, and jewelry.

Whew, I feel better already! Great idea for a thread!!! :D

You! I saw you on the highway and I'd date you, based on the unusual collection of bumper stickers on your car. :)

Gosh. I have many You's for one single person:

You! Don't invite me over to your house and take a nap while I'm there.

You! When I go to your house, I'm not there to babysit your stepgranddaughter. I'm 21. Stop saying I should play with a 7-year-old because she's "my size." (Yes, I'm short.)

You! Stop offering me bad, fatty, and sweet foods and asking me WHY I won't eat it. I already told you why.

You! Don't talk down to my parents about gambling. If they have the money, they can use it any way they want to. Don't tell me you "worked too hard for your money to gamble." Are you saying my parents didn't work for theirs?

You! Don't ask me when my parents are going to visit. Why don't you go visit them? They have a business to run. You don't.

You! Don't look down on people of races other than yours. If you haven't noticed, I'm not of your race either. If you talk about other people, I wonder if you talk about me behind my back too.

You! Why did you buy me "girly clothes" for my birthday when I told you I wanted the Walk Away The Pounds DVDs. If you're not going to buy what I want, then please do not ask.

You! Stop buying me child-sized Hello Kitty pajamas sets! It freaks your son out when I wear them to bed, some of them don't even fit, and I already have so many already--ALL FROM YOU!

You! Stop showing up unannounced. I'm not the best housekeeper in the world.

You! If you have no involvement in our financial situation (like giving us a few grand), please do not comment on it. We're not poor just because we don't want to buy stupid, expensive pictures from Bed Bath & Beyond. We just don't like stupid, expensive pictures!

You! Stop making your son hold his baby nephew. He clearly is uncomfortable holding infants. Stop pushing the baby onto his chest when he tries to push the baby away.

You! Whether or not I decide to have children is OUR CHOICE. Quit telling us that we should have children because they're "fun." It won't be so "fun" when we run out of money. And stop saying that you'll adopt our child. I'm not going to have a baby JUST to give it away. ******.

You! Stop planning my wedding! And NO, it's not going to be in your backyard! We're not even officially engaged yet!

You! Stop calling my cellphone, asking where your son is. You do this EVERYTIME. If you want to talk to him, call HIM, not ME.

You~get your act together. 2 pieces of cake does not a healthy diet make. You'll be 39 next month. Don't see 40 as a fatty. (<---Hey!! Maybe that's my...er, I mean, her new mantra.)

You~I don't know what you want me to say. If you have a particular answer in mind, why don't you just give it me, I'll repeat it, and we'll be done. M'kay?

You~You can't treat people like crap one minute and expect them to be over it the next just because you are. It's a "reap what you sow kind of deal". You've been sowing thornbushes for a while now. I've been pricked one time too many. So, no I don't want to go to lunch with you. TYVM.

You~man, I love your little freckles.

You~I can't believe you are starting MIDDLE SCHOOL!!! Seems like just yesterday.....

You~It's been a great fifteen years. The best of times and the worst of times...but I wouldn't trade them.

YOU - stop being a sexist pig with no backbone! Stand by your first decisions!

YOU - stop airing your dirty laundry in public and stop letting it affect others who REALLY DON'T CARE

YOU - if you want to cheat on your girlfriend, then cheat. If you want to cheat on her without anyone else knowing, then do it when no-one else is around, don't exclude people from group activities just because you want to get your end away. :mad:

YOU - don't presume that we'd be stupid and/or mean enough to betray a confidence

YOU - like we even SEE your girlfriend anyway?

ME - practice practice practice

Oh and You - you know I DO love you to the ends of the earth. Spending time with stupid people makes me wish I could spend more time with you, and makes me realise just how much I love you. I just wish you weren't so insecure

You~ Get off your butt and find that fluff of motivation!! Come on, you only have 10 pounds to go, DON"T GIVE UP YET!!!!!

Originally Posted by :
You - I'm too tired at night to play games...if you want to have sex and think we don't have enough...then just come on over to my side of the bed and help yourself. And if I come to your side, don't act all, "Oh, we haven't had it in a week...I didn't think we were doing it anymore..."

You - go to sleep, for crying out loud!! It's eleven o'clock! I'm sick of kissing Daddy, only to have you get up and shut the door! It totally kills the mood and, it's ELEVEN O'CLOCK!! You should be SLEEPING!! And we're trying VERY HARD not to make any noise...besides...Daddy's only giving mommy a backrub We don't do those kinds of things...

Techwife it's souns like you and I live in the same house! LMAO:D

YOU - need to stop calling me only when you want something from me.

YOU - need to not poke my pudge when i'm eating a snack that isnt the healthiest.

YOU - need to be supportive of where i want to go in life and have the faith in me that i have in myself.

YOU - need to stop pouting and get up doing something about it.

YOU - need to let yourself love yourself, while YOU need to love yourself a little less.

YOU - need to listen to me cry sometimes too.

This is the kind of thread that would make a great book!

You- stop calling me all the time- nothing new has happened in the last hour and I am trying to get stuff done!

you- I miss your hugs so much- sometimes if I close my eyes I can feel your caress again... I miss you. I wish I could have changed the tragedy that took you from us. I wish life had a re-start button.

You- I am *not* old. I am the same beautiful young vibrant girl inside that I was before you were born. The mirror does not reflect the spirit hidden within. I am in a cuccoon right now till you kids are old enough to fly away. Then the butterfly will again emerge.

You- if you are smart you wont have kids at all.

YOU - Stop changing your :censored: MIND! :tantrum: I'm not going to jump, just because you snap your fingers.

YOU - you HURT me. I don't think it'll mend that easy

You~ stop feeling quilty for having a good time!

You and you~I may not be able to have my own kids so stop saying "the bloodline rests on my shoulders"

You- You did housework for the first time in months today...doing a dish does not entitle you to belittle others' work.

You- Stop making comments about my weight. You're twice my size.

You- Please understand that what I do IS WORK!

You- Don't compare me to other artists. It's not accurate and it's not right.

You- If you're going to grill me on my projects, and then say "Oh...that's, ah...nice..." stay the **** out of my studio, please!

You- You hurt me a lot. I care about you, and when you make those mean little comments it hits me pretty hard.

You- Don't touch me.

You- I love you so much, and I would never hurt you intentionally. I wish that you would love yourself a little more and stop being so defensive.

You-(Okay...me.)- Speak up dearie, I can't effing HEAR YOU! Don't analyze, just do.