you -how dare you?!?! i am so angry i can't see straight, and i hope you realize that everyone in our dept is looking for a new job.i hope we all leave you at the same time. today was a personal attack, not a constructive request and I assure you that my days of voicing anything are over until my exit interview.

you - AND you -oh yes AND YOU - thank you for telling me how to dress my child. It is 50 degrees out, my son will not "freeze to death" because he isnt wearing a hat for the 20 ft walk from the car to the store, nor will he freeze to death because a gentle breeze wafts in when someone opens the door. And NO, I dont think he should have a coat on, he is safer in his carseat without it and the blanket will keep him quite warm enough when we are outside.

you and you - I've done all I can, its been 4 months since you've spoken to me and are not answering emails. The ball is in your court.

YOU - could you please have a little perspective? I mean good grief it's not like I murdered anyone or harmed anyone, or prevented anyone doing anything that they should be able to do. Also - you have BAD HAIR, you are WEARING A BLANKET, SOCKS WITH CLOGS ARE JUST WRONG and your car is old and RUBBISH and you have "no right" to rant on and on and on and upset me and give me a headache all day when I DON'T EVEN KNOW YOU.

YOU - will you stop complaining about your health. We all know you had a heart attack but you came through it OK! Now every damned thing is a biggie. The crabbing about the sore thumb was the final straw for me. It's a sliver! Get over it! Be a man! Wanna trade for my knee? I'm just going to leave from now on when you start up.

Yikes! I wore socks (trouser socks) with clogs earlier this season.

You - are a surprising kid.

You - are out from underneath my skin.

You - can't get frustrated that you did a fabulous job last week but the scale didn't budge.

And you - when somebody goes out of their way as a nicety to you, do NOT get snippy with them. Just because you are large enough to flatten them does not mean that you should behave that way. Get a grip on your anger and do your part to make this an emotionally neutral environment.

You - I'm not hanging around for that $#!+ ... masochism isn't my thing these days.

You - yeah, the scale still hasn't budged. But you've surprised yourself with the exercise you've embraced lately, and maybe you're developing muscle tone.

You - I'll be there soon.

How on earth did I manage to live 46 years without YOU to correct my behaviour. Amazing huh?

Oh my goodness - thank you for this thread!!

YOU - stop listening to your mother and doing everything she tells you to do - being hurtful to others less fortunate is NEVER okay. One day you may regret this behaviour.

YOU - I don't care if you think I am untalented and fat - I get paid to be on the stage you 'wouldn't pay a penny' to sit in the audience of.

YOU - Please stop playing the 'I like you' game - I know you don't like me, and it hurt for a long time, but now it is exhausting.

YOU - MOVE OUT! You are abusing your parents as a grown man - they do not WANT your trashy girlfriend spending the night in their basement! What is WRONG with you???

YOU - my weight actually WILL stay off - stop telling me it won't. It makes me want to knock your teeth out. I'm glad HerbalLife/HerbalOne/HerbalMagic - whatever! - worked for you - I don't want to do it. I LIKE counting calories!

and finally - YOU - I fell in love with you, and I'm sorry. I would never have planned to hurt you.

HeatherAngel-

I literally could have just written #1, #2, #4, and #5 on your list. Now I don't have to. Thanks!

you- stop driving 20+ miles over the speed limit when I am in the car. If you want to risk your life when you're alone, you go right ahead - but when I'm in the car go the speed limit or we'll never go anywhere together again. AND for you to get mad at me for being upset that you are going 80MPH is just ridiculous and wrong, so go ahead and pout forever for all I care.

You! Pay No Attention To The Cookies On The Feeding Trough At Work.

You- did you not notice that you can only turn there when the light is GREEN? You are going to kill somebody someday.

wow. a lot of my rage comes from driving/traffic... maybe i should never have a license. Hmm.

Also - you - thank you for being a strong role model and a supportive friend. I don't know why I wasted so many years being afraid of people and afraid to have a friend. You are reminding me that not all people are bad.

You~ Do you have any idea what it feels like to have to work my *** off for everything while watching you get everything handed to you and you still complain non stop about how 'horrible' your life is? you could at least pretend to appriciate the things you have instead of whinning "more, more, more,".

You~ I didn't stop being your friend because I don't like your boyfried. You made it more than clear that my opionion didn't matter when it came to him. And that's what hurts. Beacause isn't that what a friends suppose to be? Not just someone who's going to tell you what you want to hear, but someone who's thoughts and feelings mean something, good or bad? If you don't care about what I think, why should we be friends?

...AND You~ I'm so sorry your mom is sick, it breaks my heart. But that doesn't give you a right to treat your friends like this. I get that you don't know how to deal, but I know you, and I know that when alls said done, you're going to look back at this and hate yourself. And I hate knowing that, but if you shut us out, how can we help you?