Eeew I just had to look up brown recluse! YACK!
I'm so glad I'm in the uk, the most poisonous thing we have is an adder snake, not too many bugs! Just darn midges that bite!
My fiance is well scared of spiders, there was a medium sized one (2") in the bath the other day. I saw it and left it alone. Then about 2 hours later he comes to me with it in a cup and I say, "Oh yeah I saw that ages ago!" and he gets all huffy about how I didn't put it out!
All of our spiders are harmless so I just thought it'd go away again, obviously it liked it in the bath!