| betsy2013 |
02-09-2013 12:29 PM |
There's definitely a misconception that we're overweight just because we have no will power and that if "we really wanted to" the weight would just melt. I also used to smoke (talk about addictive personality traits!), and gave that up. One friend actually said that if I could give up smoking, I could just as easily lose the weight.
The first thing I said was "EASILY?????? ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR FRIGGIN' MIND?" The caps are because I was probably screaming it at him. It was at least 3 years before I got to the point where I didn't want a cigarette. It's been 15 years since my last one, and I'm one of the lucky ones who don't still crave them. I then pointed out -- probably still shouting -- that you still have to eat. You can't just "give up food."
I have been in situations where I've come across a truly weight bigoted person. And have you ever noticed that the first thing they go for is to make some weight-related insulting comment? My answer, delivered calmly, is that I feel so sorry for them. That always shuts them up because, of course, they think they're in the driver's seat. I tell them that I can lose weight but they'll probably always be a bigoted idiot. I then smile and walk away.
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