You look really sexy! I know how much it hurts when people say stupid things, that guy is dumb! when I reach my goal weight I will be bigger than you and ill be damn sexy too I cant wait! Remember that you are beautiful no matter what and wear watever you want im sure any other person in the world would agree. Im sure he thought u looked good too maybe he has been hurt before and thought you were hot too he probly thought you were just some hot stuck up chick (which im sure your not) but I do know when I see some skinny chick like your self I sometimes assume they are just some snooty b**** but its only cause im jealous. And sometimes people say mean things to make them selves feel better even if they dont believe it them selves. Keep rock'n that hott bod!
1. You look good.
2. Even if you didn't, unless you were violating local obscenity laws or something, it's just not his freaking business. He was being a jerk, and his behavior isn't worth renting out your headspace to.
Okay. Eff him. I bet he was ugly too. Don't you know that sometimes when men are intimidated by beautiful women they feel the need to insult the woman in order to make themselves feel bigger and badder?
I'm SO glad you put him in his place. I don't know who he thinks he is, but he isn't anybody special. A real man would NEVER insult a lady. Bah. Bad ju ju on him.
Seriously, you look great. The problem is not with you at all ... it is with him and I have no clue how a stranger has the arrogance and gall to think he has any right to say anything at all no matter what to another person. He has a problem and it will come right back on him one day, trust in that.
Back to you ... I am going to guess that you got a few rather more interested looks that day from guys too shy or respectful to actually tell you how hot you are!
I think you looked great! Perhaps he's one of those guys who in their infinite wisdom, can't have an adult conversation with a woman, so instead they insult or talk poorly about them in hopes of getting their attention.
Don't sweat it, regardless of our technology in this day and age, mankind will never "cure" stupidity. There may always be someone content to drag you down to the level their self esteem is at.
That's usually when I'd find it opportunity to respond with a snarky comment. Anymore, it doesn't serve a purpose to lower to their level, but sometimes it's the little kid in me that just wants to comment on how he should really wait to think of something intelligent to say before he shares his thoughts.
thanks for all the compliments yall. Im so glad i have this place to vent to. I guess he got in my head for a min because when i was at my highest weight i would have NEVER gone outside like that...and even though i know there was nothing wrong with the way i was dressed..when he said that to me it made me feel like i was that 234lbs girl again. but i KNOW im not and i wont let a cruel childish idiot bring me down to that
I just showed your picture to my DH without telling him the story behind why you posted it. I asked him what he thought of your physique. His response..."she has a really nice figure, especially her mid section". He looked all confused, so I said "do you think she's dressed appropriately for her body size?". Still confused, LOL, he said "yeah, she looks totally normal in a bikini top, why?". So I told him what the guy said and he was dumbfounded, shook his head and said "the guy is obviously an idiot".
The guy at the beach is not worth your time - don't let him inside your head. You have worked very hard and look fabulous! Keep up the good work. I'm a size two, but STILL don't look that good in a bikini (probably never will) so enjoy your continuing success and keep smiling!
What the....? Jeez, you look great! There are always some morons out there who think that the world will stop if they don't open their mouths and give their opinions...just ignore. I've dealt with a lot of people like that myself. Sorry that happened to you though.
Sorry to hear you ran into an idiot. I am amazed by how your body looks, given the height/weight in your profile -- you look much, MUCH slimmer and trimmer than one might expect! Like everyone else said, you look great!!
I think he was very attracted to you.
He must suffer from arrested development, and does not know how to relate to a woman. His approach has probably never landed him a date yet.
It is during our darkest moments that we must focus to see the light.
~ Aristotle Onassis ~
Seriously, you look FANTASTIC. Ignore anyone who says anything to the contrary; that picture is proof.
That guy is obviously some sort of weirdo loser who gets off on making himself look like a d*ck in public places. How embarrassing for him. You should feel sorry for someone with such terrible social skills.
Okay. Eff him. I bet he was ugly too. Don't you know that sometimes when men are intimidated by beautiful women they feel the need to insult the woman in order to make themselves feel bigger and badder?
I'm SO glad you put him in his place. I don't know who he thinks he is, but he isn't anybody special. A real man would NEVER insult a lady. Bah. Bad ju ju on him.
Yeah, maybe he was one of those idiot "Pick-Up Artists" who think an arrogant attitude and blatant insults is a foolproof way to pick up women.
