my son and his 2 children under 2 moved in with us in January, seems their mother had been emailing and texting her "first love" ex for over a year, just before Christmas she took the older of the 2 boys to see a show, we all thought it was odd since she NEVER did anything with the older boys but if she took either child it was always the younger...turns out she met the guy and spent the night with teh child while he was on leave from the Navy. Her mother died the Monday after Christmas due to alcohol and perscription drugs, we thought she was spending the next days with family, but no she was with the ex at friends house til he had to go to CA. It all came out and my son and the boys ended up with us. She bought a one way ticket to CA to be with the ex February 6..since then she has gotten married because she is preganant once again.
she contacts me from time to time, if I am nice to her, she acts like I am her best friend and tells me more information than I want to know...my son does not talk to her at all...
I cant get over my anger at her leaving the boys, if it was just my son it would be whatever hes a big boy but them, and then she acts like shes done nothing wrong...I have decided not to have anymore contact with her, part of me feels bad, but the other does not