RONNI I am not much help on men's birthdays. My favorite gift, every year before menopause, from Angie, didn't take long....sometimes it was over before the candles cooled
My kids always get me a T-shirt of the sport in season of my teams....which they know is what I want and will wear!
Mostly I want my family to be with me and of course either make one of my favorite meals or go to my favorite cheap-o Mexican restaurant...where I always will pay....unless they can beat me to it....which they seem to do more often...sneaky kids....
of course my

son in law

never has any money.....