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BellaLucia 10-29-2008 10:54 AM

Divorce
 
Are you a child of divorce? Have you ever divorced being a child of divorce? Have you ever had a divorced (for all comers).

PhotoChick 10-29-2008 10:55 AM

My parents did not divorce (although they should have). When my mom died, they'd been married 33 years.

I have been married 10 years and am separated from my husband. We will most likely divorce, but haven't taken that last step yet.

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zeffryn 10-29-2008 11:02 AM

I am a child of divorce. I haven't divorced - and don't plan on it. My in-laws are going through a divorce right now and even though the kids are all grown, it is really difficult for them. They had been married 38 years.

luvja 10-29-2008 11:04 AM

My parents did not divorce, although they should have. They have been married 26 years now.
8 years ago he cheated on my Mom with some woman he met in a bar. He felt so guilty he confessed to my Mom. She asked him to leave. He left for about 5 months than came back.
I still haven't forgave him, and probably never will. He used to be my hero, now I can't stand the sight of him.

bargoo 10-29-2008 11:18 AM

I am divorced. My parents did not divorce as my father died when I was 17 months old , my mother remarried and left my stepfather several times but they eventually stayed together.

peachcake 10-29-2008 11:19 AM

My parents are divorced. They divorced when I was about4, and my sister was about 7. My Mom remarried soon after and has been married since. My Dad hasn't remarried. I'm not married, and never have been. I hope to never get divorced but who knows.

mayness 10-29-2008 11:21 AM

My parents divorced. I think I was 15 when they separated.

They're both MUCH happier now, even though they never appeared particularly unhappy before. They've become more interesting people -- their marriage was holding them both back from pursuing their hobbies/interests. My mom is now in a serious relationship with a very nice man and my dad is happily and purposely single. And I'm really happy for both of them!

JulieJ08 10-29-2008 12:18 PM

My parents have never divorced and I'm am quite sure never will. I'm not married. My mother's parents were divorced. Her father remarried at least a couple times, her mother once. My mother was young when this happened and it was a real tragedy that still upsets me to hear or think about. She didn't have half the childhood she should have had.

stellarwbz 10-29-2008 12:29 PM

My parents divorced when I was nine. My mom walked out on us. It was very hard on me. At the time she was selfish and wasn't thinking about her family. She got remarried only a couple of years later and had another kid. In a way I'm glad she got remarried and had my little sister, but I also wonder what our family would have been like if our family would have never been split apart. When my dad died 3 years ago my mom told me that her and my dad divorcing was a mistake. She still loved him, and he never stopped loving her.

raw23 10-29-2008 12:37 PM

My parents just celebrated their 30th.
I am divorced. Stupid right-after-high-school-marriage. So dumb... Didn't know anything about myself or the person I was marring. He was a jerk and a moron who sufficated me. Engaged after 2 months. We knew eachother for 5 months before getting married. Happily divorced for over 2 years. I never plan on divorcing again, though. I've learned my lesson. REALLY get to know yourself and the other person before walking down the isle.

JamieJo 10-29-2008 12:40 PM

Parents are still together. 38 years. Husbands parents are still together. 37 years. Married, obviously, and do not ever plan on considering divorce. We've only been married for 2 years but been together about 6. Can't imagine us ever getting to that point.

lizziep 10-29-2008 12:42 PM

nobody in my family at all has ever been divorced. everyone on my husbands side is divorced. the jury is still out for us though. lol.

nelie 10-29-2008 01:02 PM

My parents divorced when I was young (5-6) and it was the right thing to do. My father wasn't a good husband to my mom.

My husbands parents have been together for well over 30 years and I wouldn't expect them to ever get divorced.

I've only been married for a couple years and I don't expect we'd ever get a divorce. I don't think my husband would leave unless I told him to and I don't think I'd leave him. I don't think either of us would do something to 'warrant' a divorce either.

Glory87 10-29-2008 03:19 PM

My parents divorced when I was 13. When I was 15, they both remarried other people and have been happy with those people ever since (I am now 39). It was the right thing for them. Now I have Mom and Tom and Dad and Lynne - twice the parents!

I have never been married - read into that what you will ;)

nelie 10-29-2008 03:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Glory87 (Post 2430370)

I have never been married - read into that what you will ;)

You are a smart lady?


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