Gonna take a "me" day. For 50 years, I did the right thing on Halloween. I went trick-or-treating. I took my kids trick-or-treating. I stayed home and handed out treats to all the kids (young and old).
For the first time in 51 years, I am going to turn off the lights - go out for a nice birthday dinner with DH and enjoy "my" day.
With age comes wisdom

(and a bit of selfishness too)