I was 19 and I don't regret it at all. I myself am a very sexual person, and though I was not in love with him, and he was not in love with me, we knew that and were just doing it for the fun of it. He alone gave me more confidence in myself than anyone else I've ever known. I'd do it again. ;)

I was 22 and it was on my wedding night :) I'm only 26 now.... it was also my husbands first time... we waited for each other our whole lifes! I'm so glad I lost it to him... I had MANY opportunities to loose it to other Boy friends or even many of the guys who I used to just make out with for fun.. but they never got more then my kisses! hehehe my husband got my everything! And I got his! we have been happily married for 4 years now! and have been together for 6! So we dated 2 years before we got married..

I was 20, living in Italy and we were together 5 years and engaged until I broke it off. He was 10 yrs older, tweed suit/bowtie/winged-tipped shoes - your typical banker/professor. There were several after him until I got married. I'm glad it was him although he was nothing like my husband of 16 yrs. Grrrrrowl. lol

I was 21 and in a very unhealthy relationship. After banging away at me for 10 minutes or so and getting essentially nowhere, he called me a cold fish, got out of bed, and finished by himself in the bathroom. That was nearly 20 years ago, but I haven't trusted anyone enough to try again.

The last time I went to the gyno, she indicated that I'm still technically a virgin, but I sure as heck don't feel like one.

I was 18, and it was to my ex boyfriend. He was 21 and the first guy I was ever really crazy about. Unfortunately, he apparently didn't feel the same and not only was it an awful experience that I would NEVER like to repeat, I found out a few months later that he was sleeping with his ex girlfriend the entire time he was with me.

Needless to say it dented my confidence a lot, and I've found it really hard to have an enjoyable connection with anybody else. I'm in a loving relationship now, three years later, although when it comes to sex I find it hard to connect to my current boyfriend.

I guess in short, when I lost my V-plates for me it was the right person, but for all the wrong reasons. I wish I had of waited.