a) single so never

b) more often than never

d) will let you know if I ever ever get to do b) again!

1. About 3 times a week.

2. That seems about right. We both work long hours and sometimes all that we can do is just cuddle.

3. Hmm, don't know. When we're both feeling fit, we do it more often. If one of us feels fat, then not as often. If we're both feeling fat, then there's a happy medium. He's 175 though, not really fat.

1. Not with anyone, but I take care of business on what seems to be waves. Sometimes it could be more than once a day, sometimes I'll go for days without.
2. I'm fairly satisfied, although I'd like to have a partner and I imagine that would add to my stimulation and interest.
3. I imagine I might feel sexier, but I've been big for so long that it's hard to say.

Ufi--you crack me up! yeah, I imagine a partner might be a bit more interesting and stimulating!!!! :D

1. How often do you ?
2. How often would you LIKE to ?
3. Do you think this will stay the same or change with your weight loss, and if so in what way?


My answers:

1. Not enough and I'll leave it at that...
2. At least 2-3 times/week.
3. I think it will change once I lose more weight, but I have found in the past year or so that due to the BCP I'm on...my sex drive is non-existent :(
I'm going off the BCP mid-October...so I'm hoping that will help :)

1) After 17 years of marriage-ummm, well...let me think when was the last time?...well... at least several months ago....When we first got married my dh told me "you're too interested in sex" I'm thinking-'hey we're newly weds what else are we supposed to do?'

2) I'm ok with the frequency...it's just too much bother to get excited about it.

3) I don't know if my weight is affecting it or not.

How long have you guys have been in your relationships? Espeically those of you doing it everyday.

1. Once a week if lucky
2. Every other day would be nice
3. Yes, I think it probably will.

There are two issues that get in the way of DH and I having sex. First is that we are on opposite schedules. He works night, I work days.

Second, I believe my BCP has put a big damper on my sex drive. I notice that I rarely really want sex but will get him in the bedroom to make sure he's getting satisfied. However, when I'm on my period week I'm WAY more interested in sex. But, during that week we have the icky factor and I'm just not comfortable having sex during my period. :shrug:

I wish there was a birth control that did not jack with one's hormones.

1. Lately.....about 40 times a day......ok, that may be an exaggeration.
2. I'm pregnant....so it changes on the daily. Sometimes I want it all the time, others.....he could fall off the face of the planet and I wouldn't be concerned.
3. I'm a beach ball right now and it doesn't affect anything. I don't think it will affect much after I lose weight either...maybe in my mind, but probably not his.

Sarah, we've been married for 5 years come December.