[jasmine620]

i moved in with my grandparents and uncles and aunt in 2006. it's been a while. i moved in because of some issues with living with my mom. even tho everyone i live with is blood related my uncle s who is also my age doesnt accept me. he doesnt even treat me like a person. he yells at me or he'll hit me whether if i just tap him or even walk in the same room. yesterday he told me to move harshly like im some dog. i told him to say please. then he starts throwing things at me. he tells me that im not part of the family and i should go eaqt something. this isnt the first time he told me im not in the family. my granddad was RIGHT THERE! he just said move. my God! this hurt me soo much. i talked tomy mom about it but she just analyzed why sean does tho things and isnt gonna do anything. i talked to my grandadabout it but he sqaid he's not gonna talk to sean. no point talking to my grandma aboutit because she rules with my gradnad. im a loner at school. i meani have absolutely no friends there. i already felt a loner in the family. its like im under ppl and it hurts. i wanna go sumwhere but i dunno where and i dunno what to do. i dunno what i did to sean. i barely talk to him cuz hes always mean to me. why dun i get respect too? when i try talking about sean to my family they turn it around on me like well stasia u do this and u do this. i kno im annoying but i wuld never go that far.

[bargoo]

How old are you ? Are you in high school ? Do you have a counselor ? Or do you go to a church ? Could you talk to a pastor ? I am just trying to think of someone you can talk to as you certainly need it ? Do you have any other relatives ? I suggest you find a trustworthy person to confide in and give you good advice.

[lilybelle]

stacie, so sorry to hear what you are going through. I don't know your age or your full situation. IMO it does sound like you need to find new living arrangements. If you are adult, there are agencies such as HUD that help with low cost housing. My step-daughter was able to get a 1 bedroom apartment for only $25.00 per month when she set out on her own.

Regardless of where you live, absolutely no one has the right to physically and verbally abuse you. Hugs.

[techwife]

Why can't you move back in with your mom? Sounds like living with her can't be as bad as that awful uncle! Shame on your grandparents for not sticking up for you. I lived with my gramma and aunt for a few months when my daughter was a baby and my cousin (the aunt's son) treated me like your uncle, but my gramma laid into him and told him I have as much a right to live there as he does and as long as she's alive its her house and she'll have whomever she wants living there. I loved my gramma. She ruled!!

Anyhow...you should check into moving back in with mom. I'm weird and annoying, too, and that's no reason to for people to be rude and hurtful. Heck, look at my son's picture in my avatar!! Its obviously hereditary!! I don't care how old you are, get the heck outta there!! You deserve much better!

[tkglenn]

Oh, I am so sorry you have to go through this. We all have problems and issues in our lives. This is something you need to go talk to someone about. It sounds as if you are in high school or possibly college, go see your school counselor. You NEED to. One day you will just blow up and you will hurt someone or maybe even yourself and on the behalf of everyone here, we don't want you to do that. We love having you here. *hugs hugs and more hugs*. You have so much more worth then what they are showing you. If I could, I would bring you into my home. I am so sorry. But please go talk to a counselor at your school, that's why they are there----to help. If they can't help, they know of someone who can. They have "hookups" and "ties". Good luck and if you need someone to talk to you can PM me.

[Lovely]

We all deserve to be treated with respect. It seems as though you've tried to talk about it with your family, but they will have none of it.

Time to turn to a trusted teacher or school counsellor. They'll be able to listen properly and give you the advice & the guidance that you need.

You a part of any clubs or groups at school or in and around the community? They don't call it "making friends" for no reason. Sometimes, we have to reach out to others.

Regardless, know that you do deserve to be treated properly & kindly. Let us know what you decide to do. We'd like to know how you're doing.