Thanks L, but I already have about five or six books on the topic for myself. That is why I am specifically looking for child oriented ones. But two books that I would strongly recommend are, "Sing your own song; A guide for single moms" by Cynthia Orange and "Successful single parenting" by Gary Richmond. Both of them are extreemly helpful and informative.
Of course just buying a book doesn't solve all the questions or even some of the questions a child may have, I know that. But often children with only one parent feel like they are the only ones who are in that situation... sometimes other resources (such as books, videos, other friends) that demonstrate that there are others in their situation can be comforting. In ex., I come to 3FC because other people can relate to my situation (being overweight) so I don't feel alone. It doesn't solve my weight problem, but it does offer me lots of tools to deal with the problem.
Like I said, shes still very young and I don't anticipate this being a big topic sometime soon, but I really feel it's best to be prepared. I can already see her giving very confused looks when fathers pick up their children at daycare.
I think both of you are right; as long as a child is safe and loved, things usually work out. No one is ever done learning... and I'm just trying to do the best that I can by gathering lots of information and perspectives.
Any other moms/dads have advice/tips/reccomendations that they want to share?
Thanks,
Michelle