Over the past week (not including Thanksgiving, which was an off-plan day for me), I averaged about 70 grams of sugar per day. I don't know the first thing about diabetes, but I'm not sure all sugar is considered bad. Fruits and veggies often have a lot of sugar but are an important part of a healthy diet. For example, today I've consumed about 75g of sugar, but 56g are from fruits and veggies (not starchy ones, either--raspberries, a pear, swiss chard, white beans, onions, butternut squash, cucumbers, and tomatoes) and 10g are from dairy; only 10g are from what I think of as traditional carb-type products (e.g., bread, pasta, cereal, etc.).
My biggest single source of sugar today was a 10-oz asian pear which had a whopping 28g of sugar (but it sure tasted good!

) None of my sugar came from dessert-type products, the carb-type sources were a whole grain cereal, a whole grain low calorie muffin-type thingy, and balsamic vinegar.