I love polenta and it is as versatile as potatoes or rice. One thing I like about it is that I find it more filling than any other starch. Half a serving is usually plenty and comes in at a mere 70 calories (compared to 160 calories for a serving of rice, 100 calories for a 4 oz potato, or 200 calories for a serving of pasta). But I don't eat it plain (although I certainly could because I like it so much).
I always keep a couple of the pre-cooked tubes of polenta that Trader Joe's sells on hand (they are also available at some more mainstream grocery stores). They come in handy for quick and easy lunches, here are a couple of my favorites:
- 1/4 tube polenta, 3 oz cooked chicken breast, 1/2 cup refried beans, and 2 tbsp salsa. Put it all in a bowl and heat it up in the microwave. Comes in at about 300 calories and is very filling.
- 1/4 tube polenta, 4 oz chicken or shrimp (weighed before cooking) sauteed (if using chicken, I beat it flat before sauteing it--it cooks faster that way), and some type of sauce. Sometimes I make a low calorie sauce--I have recipes for a spicy cherry sauce, a fruit sauce, and an eggplant-pepper sauce. Sometimes I just use something bottled--salsa, chutney, or pasta sauce. Comes in at around 250 calories, assuming you use a sauce that is around 50 calories a serving.
I also use regular, uncooked polenta, usually when I want polenta that is mushier than what comes in the tubes. I often serve soups and stews over it. Just last week I served broiled halibut with a yogurt-caper sauce over polenta. I also have several casserole recipes that call for polenta--one uses green tomatoes, one is for tamale pie, and one is a Mexican casserole. I have found that the easiest way to cook polenta is in the oven--trying to cook it on the stovetop is a mess and you have to stir it constantly. In the oven you just put it in and forget about it until it is done. I also cook my polenta with chicken broth instead of water and always add a little salt. Sometimes I add other spices as well. I'm thinking of experimenting with it as a crust for quiche.
Mudpie--polenta can be range of textures from very mushy to so solid that you can slice it with a knife and serve it as finger good. It's all a matter of how much liquid you add and how long you cook it. It sounds like maybe your cousin's wife didn't cook it long enough. It will also firm up as it cools. But it is made from cornmeal, it just isn't ground as fine.