So I am new to this site...noticed that there weren't many guys on here...I guess cause of the name of the site

....btw yes i am a guy....anyhow....i decided to post up since I decided to start up this diet....I started phase 1 last saturday, july 7th, and honestly..i have done really well....and believe me there has been TONS of temptation at work...on a DAILY basis by food being bought for us...i held back and followed the FS strictly...i actually started working out about 3 weeks ago at the gym...light weight lot of reps....dont really need to build mass at the moment (although a couple years back it was the opposite)...today is day 8 for the fs...and the only small items i have missed are mainly meats....chicken or steak....which will start monday on phase 2

....aside from that...i like this diet mainly because its not really a "diet"...it trains your body and mentally trains you as the individual to eat right and healthy...
ONE of the questions i have is....what happens if you slip up?...where do you pick up?....its bound to happen...we are only human...i know for me right now it will happen probably in phase 2 although i will try not to...do you just continue from where you left off before you cheated?....or do you start from scratch again?....
this is the routine i have been following food wise:
breakfast (around 7:30am)
oatmeal
or
4 hard boiled egg whites
or
banana shake (1 cup of non fat milk, 2 tbsp of nonfat yogurt and banana)
second meal (around 10:30-11:30am)
~1 cup of brown rice
~1/2 cup of veggies
~1/2 cup of black beans or garbanzo beans
third meal (around 1:30-2:30pm)
4 hard boiled egg whites (if i didnt have any for breakfast)
or
cherries or grapes (enough to satisfy me)
fourth meal (around 4:30pm - 5:30pm)
~1/2 cup of brown rice
~1/2 cup of black beans or garbanzo beans
or
4 egg whites with rice if egg whites were not consumed earlier in the day
workout around 7-7:30
banana shake after work out (1 cup of non fat milk, 2 tbsp of nonfat yogurt and banana)
through out the day if i get a craving in between meals...i'll have a pear...cherries...or grapes....im thinking of adding pineapple to the mix for a little bit of a sugary taste...
anyone think this is not good or if i should follow a different plan?
btw...kudos to everyone that has tried this and has not veered off...it is very tough...it takes a lot of will power right now....i have weighed myself through out the week and i am happy to say i have lost around 6 or so pounds already...already got a compliment at work from someone saying i looked thinner...so thats promising
oh one other question...i knwo the book says NOT to do weights...is there a reason for this?...im not doing heavy lifting...im doing more light weight lots of reps to build up my heart rate and tighten up my muscles along with the cardio 5 times a day...