HI GALS ~
We met for dinner at my house, as a family, last night to be with my sister. There was about 20 of us family and very close friends...family!....I made carnitas which was a big hit
Although I was busy with the food, Angie had made the rice earlier but was off teaching yoga until later, I did get a chance to visit with my sister.
The house was pretty busy and loud....that's my family
I saw my sister, brother in law and ex-wife out in the driveway...my bil and sister still smoke....anyway I went out and had some "quiet" time with her.
She said she was afraid to die. I told her being scared was only natural but a Christian shouldn't be afraid to die...not that we want to go anytime soon! But in death, for a Christian, all the pain is gone.....we will walk in paradise.
She said she would miss all of us...I told her...not possible! That would be painful. When we get to Heaven it will be perfect. If things don't go as we pray for, we will miss her...she won't miss us.
She then told me that people say so many different things about Heaven...I told her it doesn't matter what people say...God says it is PERFECT! We trust in that.
She then told me she is worried she isn't praying as good as I do since she doesn't go to church. I assured her that God hears her prayers and that from all of the people praying for her one of us will get it right
I then asked her if she believed in Christ as her Saviour and that He died for her...has already felt her pain...and that there is nothing she can do except believe that in order to get to Heaven....she said yes....I believe Jesus died for me and is the Son of God.
As the conversation went on more and more family came outside...eventually everyone was out there except Angie and my daughter in law (Angie was showing her some knitting moves

)....my ex-wife asked me if I would like to have a family prayer before people left, I sent my niece in to get Angie and dil...we all held hands in a circle out in my driveway and I said prayer.
This morning when my sister called me, to fill me in on the times for tomorrow, I asked her if I offended her in any way...she said oh gosh no...but I just don't understand as well as you Gary...you have always gone to church and study but even when I went I didn't really study...I understood what Pastor said most of the time but I didn't understand all of it.
We had a nice long talk and I feel much better now....I have been able to explain some things to her that she needed to hear.
She really has some issues and even more so her husband...on WHY DOES GOD ALLOW BAD THINGS TO HAPPEN....I think I made her feel better with my answers....
Thank you all for your prayers
