Such a long post, I decided to put my update in a different msg!
Yesterday: worked at home, and went to the gym in the afternoon. It was "Cardio Day" for me, so I did 30 minutes on the elliptical crossramp machine, doing high-low intervals of 2 minutes each. By the end, it claimed I'd gone 3 miles and burned 340 calories! That's 1/10th of a mile more than I've managed before now in the same time period -- which is a small accomplishment, but nice to see progress...especially when the other thing I see is my sweaty red face in the gym mirror!
Today: up early, to the gym before work for "Weights Day." Did my total body weight routine (and got the machines that I missed on the weekend

). As a progress report, here's what I'm up to for each exercise (generally 2 sets of 10 reps each):
Leg press: 100lbs
Quad extension: 50lbs
Seated hamstring curl: 50lbs
Glute kick: 50lbs
Adductor (3 sets) : 50lbs
Abductor (3 sets) : 50lbs
Chest press: 30lbs
Pec fly: 30lbs
Lateral deltoid lift: 30 lbs
Rear deltoid: 15lbs
Rear lat row: 35lbs
Lat pulldown: 50lbs
Overhead "military" press: 20lbs
Biceps: 20lbs
Triceps: 20lbs
I've been tracking my progress, and I want to see where I am in a few weeks. I think I can increase my weight for the leg press + thigh exercises pretty soon, and probably for the lat pulldown + lat row. My arms + chest are stubborn though (dumb old "less upper body strength than men" thing!

), and that's what I'd really like to see go up, along with my little weakling shoulders. Wish me luck, girls!
Tonight I'll try to get in some crunches, despite my intense reluctance

, and tomorrow is Cardio Day!