I've had back pain issues, and other issues that are or could have been associated with my weight, and haven't had many occasions in which a doctor did not take them seriously, even when I was at my highest weight. Back pain is not reserved for overweight folks, and not all overweight folks have pain. I've had doctors (more often ER doctors than my primary care physician) say, "it could be your weight," but when I stressed that this was not "usual," and was something that didn't occur over time, but rather was a recent and distinct change, I haven't had a problem with doctors taking me seriously.
I have had a few doctors suggest weight loss and a "wait and see" attitude before recommending diagnostic tests or treatment. When I felt it appropriate, I was straight forward and said "it may be entirely my weight, but weight loss is going to take me some time, so I would prefer we rule out anything serious in the meantime, and/or treat the body I have now, not the body I may have six months from now."
I think it is important that you stress that you have lost weight, didn't experience the problem at a higher weight, and that this is a recent noticeable change, rather than one that developed gradually over time.
Remember that you deserve decent medical care at any size (and most doctors do realize that).
Last edited by kaplods; 04-12-2009 at 09:14 PM.
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