Just a comment: there's really no such thing as "toning" or having a "toned body". Toning is sort of a myth developed by "trainers" catering to women who are paranoid about bulking up (which can't happen unless you are specfically trying (eating, taking drugs, and working) to bulk because women don't have the hormones to build that kind of muscle naturally).
The only thing that will get you the shapely, trim, "toned" hips/butt/thighs that you want is to build muscle and strength. The best way to do that is to do things that work groups of muscles, rather than individual muscles. Nelie is spot on with suggestions for things like squats, lunges, planks, etc.
I'm still overweight and you can't *see* all my muscles all the time, but I am strong and have definite muscle development from doing these types of exercises. My butt has become less flat, my thighs and calves are more shaped, and although I still have tummy fat, I can feel the muscle beneath where I couldn't many months ago.
It really does work.
PS - here's a really well writing article on why "toning" ... isn't!
http://exercise.about.com/cs/weightloss/a/toning.htm
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