Well... we made it through the weekend without too much trauma. The only thing boy did that was extreem was to rip up a perfectly good pair of jeans with his bare hands while sitting in church. Don't ask why ... I did and all I got was that he thought they looked 'cool' like that. He ripped the whole bottom out of both legs ... and I'm not kidding ... all the way from knee to hem. I threw them in the trash to teach him a lesson. He was not a happy camper!

He also changed outfits on me yesterday morning. We agreed on what he was going to wear to church ... I let him choose. While I was downstairs practicing, he decided he didn't want to wear that afterall. So he chose something else and got dressed. He got in the van and we were on our way to church. I looked over at him and realized he had on a shirt that had big white splotches all over it where bleach had been spilled on it ... it had other spots on it as well plus he had different pants & his old shoes on. I stopped in the middle of the road and asked what in the world he was thinking. He said he just changed his mind and decided to wear that instead. I told him he didn't get to change his mind without consulting me. He started yammering something about how that wasn't fair, yadda yadda yadda. I told him to shut his mouth. I told him I had to sing in a class at church & I was going to go fullfill that duty then he was going home and change into what we agreed on and come back for church. He was so upset because he wanted to go to his class and see his friends. I said, no, you will go to my class, sit on the back row, keep your mouth shut and then go change your clothes. He started yammering at me again so I smacked him and told him he would not speak again until we got to church. We changed the clothes and he learned to do what he was told.
I WILL NOT GIVE UP ON THIS CHILD!
On the plus side ... he went to the altar last night!
There is much much more girls ... the half has not been told. Yes it is a 'family affair'. This is my daughter's son. My daughter has had all she can humanly take. I guess you could say she came to the end of her rope with him and the end was in flames. His dad was not being much help, either. Whatever she said not to let him do is the very thing Dad would allow. The last thing he did at home before we got him was to kick his door down. It took both of them to spank him and then they still couldn't do it. He disobeyed his teacher a week ago and got into it with the principle at his school ... it took him and 2 teachers to paddle him. His mom wanted to send him to an academy not too far from here but it was going to be over $40,000 for 6 months and they said that was how long he needed to stay. They simply could not afford that. I guess you could say WE are substituting for the academy right now. Hubby told him if HE had to paddle him he wouldn't need anyone else and he'd better hope that never happened. I told him if I ever got him I'd use a belt and I would not be particular where I hit so there would be no need to hold him down. The bad thing is, school was out last Fri. and today because of a flu epidemic here. We have four days this week and then it will be out for 2 weeks for spring break. HELP!!!
Kate ... I don't do house guests well. You are a good person.
Tammy ... that was scary. Doesn't sound much like a sinus problem to me. Let us know what the Dr. says.
Mima ... Chiro sounds like a plan but you might should have an Xray. I wrecked my van 3 weeks ago ... thank goodness no one was hurt. Whole front end is gone ... parts are going to be in this week sometimes. Supposed to get it fixed first of next week.
Joanne ... take it easy and let people make a fuss over you now while you can. When you get better they'll all have you up waiting on them soon enough.
Anne ... hope your daughter's arm doesn't give her too much pain. Who is taking care of the kids? Sure hope that mole doesn't scar but it shouldn't with laser surgery.
Candice ... hope you're feeling better by now. I hate computer problems. I have 2 stupid boxes that pop-up on mine every single time I turn it on. Drives me crazy. The only way I can get rid of them is to press Alt - Control - Delete. It takes forever to get mine started. I've been just leaving it on because of that.
Keep me in your thoughts and prayers and I will all of you. I may not be on as much as usual but you'll know why! Love you gals.