Carol Sue When I first went to OA and was starting the gray sheet and I was getting used to not eating any sugar, I suddenly realized one day that I had just put something in my mouth that has sugar in it and I did the same thing you did. I spit it into the garbage disposal. I did that a few times while I got used to being more mindful of not eating sugar. My problem back then was that our sweeteners were so sweet that they would become a trigger. I didn't know that back then and neither did anyone else in our group. When we would come to our TOM we would crave sweets and I would binge on foods made with them if I didn't give in to something sweet.
I wanted to say that I counted the 12g of carb in my milk yesterday since I didn't think the LWB was clear enough about counting or not counting them. So I am making those carbs part of the 72 grams allowed. I decided that it wouldn't hurt for me to count it. It will just be part of my woe of eating on this plan. I really think at our ages that we need to have the calcium.
As for my ticker, I want to see my progress. I weigh everyday, but I might even try to stop that and weigh once a week making Monday my WI day. This might be a good idea since my weight bounces. However, I know it bounces so I'll see how it goes. I also love that avatar. I never felt the way that avatar makes me feel. I decided I needed something to pep me up. LOL
I thought of this when writing out my food plan for today. When I did WW years ago when my kids were little, I got in the habit of us eating the same food each week. WW had recommendations back then of only eating 2 or 3 red meat servings and we had to eat liver once a week. My family loved red meat (I didn't know that my kids got tired of liver until my youngest son said one day when we were waiting to go grocery shopping said to me "Mama, do have to have liver every Wednesday? Can we have something else?). I wasn't going to WW then so I stopped the liver meals however the red met meals stayed. My family knew in advance what we were having to eat for supper on any given day. Example roast was on Sunday. In fact, I finally had to stop that because my oldest son complained about having roast every Sunday. LOL!!!
As I thought about this, I began to think that this would be a good plan for DH and me. Since DH likes only certain foods and we are doing this pretty much together, I have decided to take those foods and make up a weekly plan of what we will eat each day of the week so we can get in the habit of eating the way we need to eat for good health. This should work well by eating only the foods we both like.
On LWB, we are allowed cold cuts which I buy for a quick snack to stay OP and keep me from eating chips etc. I noticed DH is beginning to go into the fridge and himself a slice or 2 of cold cuts and puts mustard on it for a snack. He even picked up a package of bologna at the store last week. That will be so much better for him than some of the junk he has been eating.
I've read that a lot of people who lose weight successfully and keep it off make their menu plans a week in advance. I don't think it has to be written in stone that we eat fish on Monday and pork on Tuesday etc. I think it be flexible so you can switching days up during the week. For example, some Mondays like yesterday I like to make a beef roast, but then some Mondays I like fish or chicken. So it could be flexible and I can also allow for those days when we go out to eat which on average works out to be only 2 to 4 times a month depending on what is going on.
I honestly believe I have found a way to make all this work for me and DH as a lifestyle. Funny thing is, although I now CAN have 72 grams of carbs a day instead of 20 or 30 grams, I do not feel it is necessary to have 72 grams a day. So far today according to my food plan, I only have 30 grams planned and 15 of those may not be used. Isn't it funny how you can take away the strictness of a plan and make it feel more normal and it makes the whole thing easier because it takes away the pressure.
I saw you
Carol Sue a low carb group that isn't as strict as Atkins etc. I've been reading and thinking of joining there. Now that I have my plan, I may see you over there.