Hi Passion and
I wish I had some magical words for you but I don't.... I seem to fall into the same boat as you (cept its not college, its work and kids and home). Best thing for us to do is to keep trying, never give up and to find some really great support chicks to help you thru times like this.... and let me just say that this place is JAMED PACKED with wonderful people that can help.
May I suggest you roam the boards and buddy on up with a group or two or three

a place you can call home
Good luck and hey !! hang in there... we DO know how you feel.
Leenie