I'm 36 and I went off the pill mid July partially because i forgot to get it filled and also because my libido had been so nonexistent that sex was not on my mind in the least. I was on the pill from the end of 2000 until July 2008-nonstop. I also think my own circumstances helped the depression from the pill as well. So 2007 was just about the most horrible year emotionally for me. But as I was "off" of the pill this summer I started to feel something I hadn't felt in a long time-hopeful. Hopeful is just the word that I used to descibe my interest in my husband again, my need to be hugged, to watch a sappy chick flick like "the notebook", I really felt awakened and yes-very hopeful. Things in my life didn't seem so dismal anymore, I wanted to have a drink and a smoke(ps-I don't do either) at our friends' annual end-of-the-summer party. yes I was quite the buzz with "loose"ways. But I don't care because I am no longer under the cloud that I had been under, all this time(8 yrs) I really thought it was me, that I was the strange one who doesn't know how to enjoy life, I used to joke that I don't need sex anymore because I have my 2 kids anyway, how sad that this went on for this long I feel cheated in a way. I found this out when I did research on my own that 5-10% of women on hormones have very little libido as well as depression. What is 10% of a million women? That's just the tip of the iceberg.It really was the pill. How sad for us all. How sad for my husband that hung in there all these years. So no pill we are careful, and enjoying each other again.