Do you get better customer service when heavy in the upper body?
ok, I, by NO MEANS am advocating staying heavy, let me say that straight away. However, today dh went to get a ton of sand and got about 1/2 a truck bed full. I went (with the excess weight I'm really chesty) and forgot I had a lower cut top on (I *thought* hubby and I were going on a date..anyway..). ... I asked for a ton of sand and I got at least twice what dh got! It's so funny because mechanics or people like that always seem to want to deal with men but when it comes down to getting service, I think we women have the advantage sometimes! (sexist but often true). DH says he's going to send me from now on
Now, I have no intention of staying heavy just so I can have a bigger bra size! I would LOVE to be almost flat chested. I'm hoping losing about 60 pounds will do that for me. I've been doing slimfast and eating only 1/3 to 1/2 of what I would normally serve myself. It's been helping and for some weird reason it's helped to keep me from bingeing. I think when I eat too much at one sitting, I then trigger a binge but if I keep my portions really small, I feel more empowered or something and fight the urge to binge better.
Does that make any sense?
I have noticed the same thing. I have always been large chested. I often have men talk to them even. HA HA I work in an Emergency room so alot of drunks and people from jail come in and they seem to like chest gals ha ha I am hoping too that mine get smaller as I lose weight. However they seem to be getting a little flopper too. Is there a good excercise for that? ha ha
I don't have big ones but my daughter does. I really noticed this in one stores where there was all men. I wanted some good quality waterbed sheets and asked what kind of deals they had. I got a bit off. My daughter then came in and she asked. She got me two sets of sheets at 3/4 the price off. I couldn't believe it lol. Those men couldn't keep their eyes off her breasts, kinda creeped us out but she got a good deal.
Be careful what you wish for...I AM almost flat-chested! I've always been pretty much normal sized, but since I got down to my current weight, I've lost everything. It's so frustrating! I want to be just ONE more size larger!
Unforunately, it is quite true that heavy chested women get better customer service almost 90% of the time IMO. I don't care if the customer service person is pissed off they will forget all that in an instant, and they will stare at that woman's breast at least a few times during the assistance. I think the best way it has been summed up was in a Dave chappelle skit about some young girl who complained about her bust size and she realized her position's benefits...funny as heck but rude, as u might expect from chappelle's show. I watched this with some girls and guys and while u saw a blush or two at first they all burst out laughing by the middle of the skit. The only other type of woman that get's this much attention is the pretty girl, which also gets good service but not as much in all truth.
The only thing I'm NOT looking forward to is losing weight in my chest. I LIKE my boobs! I guess it'll be worth it. And yes, the girls do get me better service once in a while.
LOL, this thread is too funny! My DH and I were just talking about this last night He's complaining because he knows that when I finally lose this weight, the girls are not going to be as curvy as they are now! TOO BAD! LOL, I do like the curves, but not the weight--doubt they'll stick around.
I have already lost some weight and my size has gone down dramaticly. When u have always had a large chest it feels odd it not being there. I am not flat but it feels like it compared to what I was.
I didn't get any better customer service when I had DD's. The reason why was that I was big all over, not just there. Now that I am much slimmer and a C cup, I get more attention and better service.
The thing of it is...I wouldn't say I'm big chested...I wear a small C, large B. So when I lose the weight they will be GONE! Ah, well. I can always wear a water bra.
I never really noticed, but then again I've always been sort of oblivious to male attention so it's hard to say. (This may also explain why I'm chronically single)
I am also fairly busty which doesn't change as I lose weight, so I don't have anything to compare to. If anything, I become more top heavy as I slim down because most of the fat goes away but the boobs do not!
I HEARD about that as well- but never expierenced it.
But I used to have a very massive chest: I had E or F six years ago. I always used to hide it.
In 2001, I decided to undergo a surgery- the insurance paid it because I was highly at risk of riuning my back and specially my shoulders. And weight loss wouldnīt have solved the problem....
I lost more than 3 pounds chest weight, today I am wearing a size C bra. But I am still not expierencing any changes in customer service...Maybe because I am too shy and hiding to much Or I donīt realize it......
I never really noticed, but then again I've always been sort of oblivious to male attention so it's hard to say. (This may also explain why I'm chronically single)
Uh, I know that problem as well....There could be 100 men flirting with me- I wouldnīt notice! Or I would ask: Are you kidding me?