I would appreciate any feedback you have. I'm so frustrated with myself.
I've always had a binging problem. And I would love to know why I do it and how to control it.
My biggest problem is when I start eating I can't stop.
Currently I've lost 15ish lbs the *healthy way* - exercise 6 days/week (run, elliptical, Pilates, yoga, strength train and workout DVDs) and I'm eating super healthy (vegetarian, all natural, mostly organic, getting lots of protein, healthy grains, tons of veggies & some fruit...).
But in order to control the binging I basically don't eat until dinner. To get the nourishment and energy for exercise I drink protein shakes as meal replacements. I can control myself when it's just a drink. But any mid day snacking will lead to all day eating (most of the time). So I eat a very healthy dinner, usually around 1000-1200 calories (totaling my intake for the day at 1200-1400 calories). Dinner is something like quinoa and tofu, but a LOT of it. I drink a ton of water, take vits/minerals, supplements, lots of superfoods, Omega 3s... I do everything I'm supposed to do, until I binge.
My binging usually consists of pretty healthy foods, but a TON of them, eating all day, consuming up to 4000 calories/day (I'm 5'2" & about 120lbs). And sometimes I have unhealthy binges - I "fall off the wagon" and find myself at the grocery store just to buy chips and cheese and other less healthy foods just to sit down for a day of binging. These binges usually last a few days.
How can I go from one extreme to the other? I enjoy working out and I love healthy foods. But something happens and my mindset turns. I will actually knowingly sit down to crappy food and think about all the stuff I can, and will, eat that day, all day long. It's all or nothing for me - I can't treat myself here and there b/c it's like a trigger for me. But I do love cheese, Mexican food and other foods and I don’t want to deny myself.
Usually my weight creeps up from constant binging. It gets to a certain point and that's where I freak and I quickly turn to unhealthy methods to lose. I exercise, but then the purging after binging starts and that often changes to starvation. And, when my weight is finally down I let food and laziness win again and I binge. It’s like 'ah, I'm finally here, now I can screw it up.' I know I'm far from alone with the yo-yoing. But why do I do what I do?
So I have a history with anorexia (as low as about 90lbs), bulimia, binging (as high as about 150 not counting pregnancies), binging and purging, not binging but still purging... As small as I am I can gain 10 lbs in a week so easily (including water weight obviously). And unfortunately, I know how to lose it nearly as fast.
So why and what do I do? What can I try? It’s not in my budget to see a therapist, but really want to get to the root of this. Once I start I can't stop. Even eating out - I can pack up take home food, but I ALWAYS polish it ALL off as soon as I get home.
I know how to eat healthy, really healthy. I know how to keep healthy foods around me to snack on. I know implementing small portions of my crave foods here and there should help keep me from over eating them. I know eating too little can trigger binging (but I can assure you that maintaining for me is around 1400 calories/day; losing is eating around 1200 calories/day w/exercise burning about 500-1000 cals/day... yes, my metabolism is that screwed up from what I've done to my body). I know grazing healthfully should help. I just binge anyway, or starve anyway. Help?