Hi Jennifer - reading your post really touched my heart - I am thinking of a million quotes and sayings that I want to pass on to you...
First let me say that where you are right now is EXACTLY where you are supposed to be. Emotionally, socially, physically...You have fought a hard battle and won...
I think that if your family and friends had TRULY understood what was going on and loved you unconditionally they would have stuck by you through this hard time. I know for myself I would never leave someone that I cared deeply for in their deepest and darkest moments. Even if what they were doing to themselves did not make sense to me.
I would read about it - give them support and love and caring...whatever they needed at the time.
Now you are so much healthier...there is a possibility that you COULD reach out to them...I have this feeling that maybe if you did you would be able to see your relationship with them more clearly without the Anorexia clouding your mind. What I am trying to say is that maybe they were part of the problem in the first place. Through your receovery I am assuming that you did work with a psychotherapist or psychologist or psychiatrist? Things must have come out about family etc...
Maybe I am being nosy...thankfully you do not have to answer if you do not want to
Anyway - this WHOLE thing that you are going through is a PROCESS and a JOURNEY...there will be bumpy roads and shitty feelings but there will also be JOY.
I believe that the more clearly you can feel your own emotional pain the more blissful and amazing the JOY will be when it comes.
shnadle