Star, don't be afraid of getting preggy, the end result is sooo worth it

I gained 45 lbs with my daughter and lost 38 in about 6 weeks, its a weird weight, if you tackle it right away, it seems to drop like water. At least for me it did. I would suggest eat normally, lots of veggies, fruits and healthy choices and you'll be just fine. Unless there is something medically wrong, I don't think and this is my opinion, women should diet while they are pregnant. The body calls for all sorts of things (cravings) and you should listen to them (okay not the banana split or bags of chips, although fun lololol) you know what I mean. Babies need lots of folic acid and all sorts of stuff AND while they grow inside you they rob your body of nutrients, so just eat. Its only a few months of your life that will pave the way for your baby for the rest of their lives. Your doctor will be the one to advise you anyway.
Now how did I blow up like a blow fish, it was the getting up all hours of the night, thats when I did damage, I started picking, one feeding for the baby, one for mama... OY!
Brenda,
My hubby reached his goal, what he did was go a few pounds below his goal and add things slowly back in, once he was at his weight (his actual goal) he knew what he needed to eat.
Get this.... now that he's at goal, he watches like a hawk all week and on weekends he pigs out at night, yup b/4 bed he eats like an entire bag of chip ahoys, no lie. He jumps right back on the band wagon on Monday and poof the water weight he gained from the weekend is gone. He's in heaven lol.. Me WAAAH!!! lolol I get to watch and drool heheheheheheheeeee.
You'll do just fine, and congratulations to everyone for being so close...bravo my hero's.