I count calories with a piece of notebook paper on my fridge and a little notebook in my purse. lol
Meatwise, I only eat wild caught salmon and such, no land animals, and as many whole foods as possible. I am a person who like volume, so I tend to eat a lot of big salads, raw veggies -- though I do indulge in the occasional sweet or 'unhealthy' carb.
I typically have a smallish breakfast, small snack, decent lunch, and consume many calories in the evening which is my trigger time and time I tend to snack -- so I allow for it as to not feel deprived
I zig-zag calories, count daily, tally weekly and aim for an average of 1600-1800 a day.