Oh, Peek is so adorable! Is he a hackney? I love the little snip on his nose--I'd probably just about have to kiss it off. lol And Zuess reminds me of a pony I had called Thundergirl. She was a handful, let me tell ya! She even chased the dog (a huge collie/shepherd mix) away from his food. lol But she had been mistreated and I was actually retraining her. She ended up a well behaved little lady.
I was so upset to hear about that filly breaking her ankles. I HATE horse and dog racing. It is just wrong to use animals for entertainment. Last night on Bill O'reilly, there was a woman trainer talking about it and she said, basically, that the horses are well cared for, treated like family, love to run--she spun him good. LOL She didn't tell him that the "horses" running are babies, not full grown and shouldn't even be carrying much weight, much less pounding furiously daily in training and races. She didn't tell him what happens to many racehorses when they "retire". Remember Ferdinand, who won the 1986 Kentucky Derby, and the 1987 Breeder's Cup, and was ALSO named 1987 Horse Of The Year? He was sold to Japan when his racing days were over and he didn't work out as a stud and ended up on some Japanese plate.

The whole thing makes my skin crawl. Dog racing is just as bad if not worse.
Grammy, hang in there...this stress in your life shall pass. My life, for 30 years was a total mess, always a lot of drama, I brought up two boys by myself and managed their Rock/metal band--my house for 5 years was literally a "band house".

but now, it's more like a buddist temple. LOL I live alone. The house is small--only 7 rooms, including the bath. My livingroom walls are sage green and soooo relaxing. The only "problems" I have is daily "drama" from my 8 cats (someone is always mad with someone else about somethingl lol), and occassionally, I'm under a little stress to get a project finished by a certain time (I have a small home business), but other than that, when I am home, I am SOOO peaceful. I hope for every one of you that you have that someday--peacefulness, contentedness. Well, not totally content. I want a horse!! LOL My vet recues and I'll probably end up getting one from him.
Irishfairy, hope you have a fantastic time. I went to New York many years ago. It was exciting, but to tell the truth, I think someone has be a bit off kilter to live like that. Too many people, too close...yuck. Good shopping, and good food though! lol Fantastic place to visit...but I wouldn't live there if all expensives were paid... I swear, New York "hummms"...literally. The whole time I was there, I felt an anxious energy about it. I think that's what draws so many people there--me--gotta get away. I'm a country girl--or at least a small town girl. lol
Zenor, sorry to hear about the job falling through, but you are right...it just wasn't the time. Something else is planned for you! Have faith!
Oolong, you just hop right back on the wagon...that little mistake only put you a day or so behind, so just keep on trying!