So, the consensus seems to be: there is no consensus. Everyone seems to figure out what works for them!
I think what makes calorie counting successful is becoming really aware of what we're eating and finding ways to limit portions so that we eat less than we "burn". Some people do that by writing everything down. Others figure out the general calorie counts of their meals and snacks and can interchange them, knowing what it works out it. Some count veggies. Some don't count ANY veggies (but may end up giving themselves somewhat fewer calories to compensate)...
The thing is, any of these approaches can be successful. It's up to each of us to figure out which one(s) will work for us!
