Thanks everyone!
Sorry I was MIA for it and didn't respond sooner.
My 5 year old son was sick with double ear infections, and double pneumonia-and was hospitalized on my birthday and Halloween...and the next day Saber, the new baby, had vaccinations and was reacting badly to them (fever, fussy, neverending crying....)
Suzanne 3FC told me on another thread to have a "do over".
I think I will!!!
Aphil