Jillzeebean, I hear ya, hon.
I will be THRILLED the day my period doesn't come back. It will be a time for celebration!
I think the best thing you can do is plan for it, and be good to yourself when it "hits". Know that you're going to be cranky/irritable/uncomfortable/etc, and plan some good "me time" for yourself.
The clumsiness may be because you're distracted and feeling crappy.
Even after having it for 28 years (I'm 40), everytime I get it, I think, "What the HECK is going ON here!?!?!?" I mean, it's just so unreasonable and ugly. I know some women see it as a beautiful thing, but for me, it's just a darned inconvenience. If it's any comfort, I'm convinced that in their next life, men come back as women.
You're not alone, hon... sending you big hugs...