So, been doing ok, maintaining, loving being a WW leader. But then, life throws curveball, with Mom, she almost died. Put her in the home. Things going ok. Then, 98 year old gramma in the midst of this needs surgery, first time in her entire life! We handled that!
Now my inlaws, old and a mess, and farm ground and so on and so forth, and then more of that.
*deep sigh*, my sisters and I got all of Moms things taken care of. And Grmma!
Now the hub and his, parents, he has 2, I have 1, and 5 siblings, can not seem to get their poop in a group.
So, they keep saying, "you did it", do this!
I am to the point, really! Me and 2 sisters, handled gramma and Mom! No fighting, no issues, no money, just power through!
Now I am getting blamed for not sending 5 siblings emails to the lawyer, that I did TWICE!
How come, 3 siblings can just do it, and 5 can't get their **** together, but would rather blame in on the "sister in law?"
I do understand, it is their family dynamic, avoid and blame.
I"m done! Myself and my sisters still have our mother and grandmother we need to see to and take care of. And we have kids, and grandkids, and fun thing we want to enjoy. Along with 2 jobs, I do not have time to mess with his dysfunction.
I love him, but, not my problem.
Thanks for listening, just needed a rant place, that was not FB.
I know you all understand!
Checked in now and then, busy, family crap.
