Ike, may I smack these people for you?
Family can be the worst. My mom said some very hurtful things to me over the years - at a time that she and I were both at about the same weight.
Drs can run a close second. I think that some get it - they understand that it's a process and will congratulate you every change you make. Those Docs are the exception though and not the rule.
I do think I know what you're saying. You don't want a ticker tape parade - but the occasional compliment or comment really does help.
Sometimes it's the people we aren't closest to or that haven't seen us in a long time are the ones who notice and are positive and kind with their comments. I do really hope that you cross paths with one of those people in your life soon.
And congratulations on the 117!! That's a major accomplishment and I'm betting that you look like an entirely different person.