I just need a place to dump some stress! Thank you for being here.
It's all over some inheritance, farms, etc., that 50 years ago, made sense. Now it does not. My inlaws are locked in a battle of "stuff/property and emotions!
They are old, they bought a lake house, they just want to give up the farming, they can't do it anymore, and go hang out and fish.
They are in there 70's. However, Great Gramma, who is 97, can't figure out why they do not want to keep farming?
Long story short, my DH is stuck in the middle of this mess, he comes to me for advice. *deep sigh*
I'm of a different sort. Long story short. I'd tell who ever to take the stuff/farm, stick it, I'm gone fishing.
I've told him, they just need to step off the merry go round and go fishing.
That will never happen
I am just so sick and tired of hearing about, I deserve this, this one does not deserve that, Great Gramma, (thankful for that much family), threatens to sell or dis own, or whatever!
Come on people! It's just stuff!
I am so thankful, that my family does not act that way. My sisters and I, and my mother had a talk about my mothers house last weekend.
Our middle sister would like the house.
Without going into a long story, myself and my other sis, are, like, OK!
I have a place, my youngest sis has a place. My middle sis, lives at the college where she works. If she want's our Mom's old house! Go for it!
Anywho, I'm fed up to my little blue Swedish eyeballs, dealing with the b**ching and fighting and who gets this, who gets that, who deserves, who does not! Who is kissing Gramma's behind, to get the best deal!
I told my DH last night, when he asked my opinion, that they all needed taken out behind the out house and spanked, with a big ole tree branch for being selfish, and stupid, and then they needed to sit in a time out, according to age!