I no longer have the weight I once carried but often have the same feelings you describe about self-pity, alienation & lack of self-worth.
Hugs, it is normal in life to feel this way. It is not about the weight, really. We just have to keep moving on & seeking help when we need to, reaching out, feeling our feelings, & absolutely going out to see our friends & being part of the real, non virtual world.
Weight is important to me but it does not define me. The same thing for me is career & age, I have let them both define me for too long & I am done with those pity parties.
Don't waste the one life you have despairing over weight.
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