Sometimes you just have to take the plunge
I met my fiance on a whim when I went to a campus event back when I was a college sophomore. It was speed dating actually and I went thinking: "lol nothing is going to happen" because I was around 200lbs at the time and had little experience dating.
Well I figured I had nothing better to do and I went. We met, exchanged numbers and started going out about three weeks later. It's been almost four years ago exactly that we started going out.
My point is that sometimes you just have to GO FOR IT. Going to that speed dating was totally out of my comfort zone. I wasn't prepared for any guy to be attracted to me whatsoever and I was nervous, but I put on a pretty outfit and took the plunge.
Who knows who you'll meet? Take the confidence and shine