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Originally Posted by Nola Celeste
the person who asked, "how do you cope?" would've gotten a response of, "Oh, I find it easier to bear up under this excess weight than you'll find it to get through life with your stank attitude."
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HA!!! I think I love you!!! (great comeback!)
While I've encountered all sorts of comments from all sorts of people (family, friends, strangers, ***holes) I have to say that family/friends - that is, those you love the most & depend on for support & so forth... somehow... just seem to be able to get the digs in a little deeper. I think most of the time, they don't MEAN to be mean, but sometimes something a person says just really RESONATES with something we're feeling or thinking about ourselves at the moment, and WHAM! - feels like you've been kicked, slapped, beaten with a garden hose.
For me, I rarely get upset when anybody mentions my fatness. Whether it's off-handed or back-handed! - I usually spit out a comeback remark (99.9% it's a humorous remark) & go on my merry way. But there is something that I truly DO.NOT.APPRECIATE. And that's remarks about my eating habits - whether positive or negative.
"Oh, going back for 2nds I see!"
"You're first in line at every family gathering."
"Look at you, shoveling it in!"
"Beach Patrol sure does eat well."
(WTF????????????)
"You've been eating the same lunch for 2 months now."
"You really should learn how to cook more/better/differently."
"Why can't you have chocolate? I've seen you eat it before."
"Maybe you should try putting your fork down between bites."
"Oh, have another slice of cake! One more ain't gonna hurt you."
etc, etc, etc.
Most times it just garners a big ol "roll-eyes" from me.
Every now & then, I'll tell'm to keep their crappy opinions to themselves.
But sometimes? I feel like "POW! TO THE MOON!!!!"