Hi, marigrace,
Hope you won't be too hard on yourself. You learned a valuable lesson! It's disheartening, but now you know one of your triggers.
I empathize, because I'm the same; in fact, I really can't have wine at all while I'm losing. I can be totally on plan, but the minute I add a glass of wine to the mix, my weight loss stalls completely. Which utterly sucks, because it's one of my favorite things! I live in fantastic wine country -- heck, I sometimes even make my own wine with grapes I finagle from the local vineyards. But... no wine for me for a long while. I'll probably make an exception here and there for very special occasions, but it's water and tea for the time being... <sigh...>
Pick yourself up and keep going, eh?
At least you have that new career opportunity to motivate you!