In six weeks, I'll be sitting here typing about how I'm having surgery tomorrow... I'm a bit freaked out about that! We shall see how I am then!
LOL
I have been trying to say goodbye to the food I have been using as my friend, confidant and anesthetic. Trying to do things I need to, like take vitamins, exercise or eat like I will be soon enough... ordering a smaller breakfast, drinking slowly, I even took 45 minutes to eat dinner, etc.
Telling myself I can do this...but now I am finding my nerves are shot, my neck muscles are too tight, I have a headache...that sort of thing. Though I feel like I'm not following all the restrictions that will be my reality after surgery, I think I'm doing myself a favor by stretching my limits now...giving up behaviors and amounts..."sitting" in any uncomfortable emotions without eating over them (the hardest of my experiments!)
But I do these things to make post-op life easier...to show that I care for myself enough to do this, that I can be strong enough to handle it.
Oh and NOT because I am not good enough and need to be better...not because there is anything essentially wrong with me...but because I need to change my life as it stands and deserve this change.
I told my surgeon I truly believe that all I need is this tool to get the whirlpool spinning the other way. WLS is like a big spoon... huh? you say...
There is an experiment I did with my preschool students that shows liquid in a bowl can move a spoon. Stir it hard enough and the whirlpool can carry the spoon (plastic one of course these are 4 year olds and easily amazed! LOL) but the challenge was stirring the other way, against the flow to change the whirlpool's direction.
I saw my life a few years back as the whirlpool that was circling the drain...I have been fighting to stir it the other way but just need a BIGGER SPOON!!!
Thanks for letting me talk,
Angela