Bear with me, please, for starting this thread. This is a parenting thing, and I'm looking for advice/input/perspective. Everyone here is always so thoughtful with their responses, it seemed like an obvious choice...
My daughter will be starting Kindergarten in the fall (where did the time go?). I work part-time and will be able to pick her up at school two days per week. Unfortunately, the dismissal time at the school were I work is later than her school's time, so I won't be home in time to get her on the other three days. Our school has an extended day program that we can access, except (and here is my dilemma)...
We have very good friends who live across the street. Their daughter will also be starting K in the fall. The girls are the closest of friends and love spending time together. My friend has graciously volunteered to pick up my daughter on the days when I am working and watch her (about 30 minutes) until I get home. Unfortunately, however, although we are good friends, we have
very different parenting styles when it comes to safety issues. Since we live close to the school, our street is very busy during drop-off and pick-up times. If we happen to be out walking during this time, I usually have a death grip on my daughter's hand.
My neighbor's kids, however, are as much as a block away, paying no attention to the cars, driveways, etc. This is especially troublesome since the girls will be walking home from school most days (barring really bad weather).
I tried to broach this subject with my friend, but she honestly feels that
she is an overprotective parent who (her words) "should really let the girls take more chances" (they also have a daughter who is 3). My daughter, of course, is fully expecting to go home with them on the days when I have to work. I feel very awkward about turning them down in favor of the afterschool care program.
Any suggestions on how to handle this? Am I being overprotective? I can't help but think that my general anxiety about DD starting Kindergarten is coloring my judgement...
Sorry for the length...
~Laura