Disclaimer: I am probably overreacting. But this falls in with our Keeping it a Secret discussion and ugh, it rubbed me the wrong way.
First of all my boss is a good man. He is a basically kind man with the best of intentions- said intentions frequently get him nowhere- poor guy. But still- he has a sweet tooth, and likes to bring in junk food. He buys doughnuts, muffins, and stuff for us and I have partaken in one doughnut and a half a muffin in three months. Yep. You could say my habits have changed. I can honestly say that most of the time I don't want that stuff either.
Well today he brings in cookies, and asks me about them three times. I didn't have one. Finally he looks at me and says, "Do you want me to not bring them back so you can avoid temptation?" with this LOOK on his face like what he meant to say was "Do you want me to get these away from you since you obviously can't control yourself, fatty?"
I KNOW he meant well. I KNOW he was trying to be helpful. I have never told him I was on a diet, but i know that my coworker (his daughter) has. I KNOW I shouldn't be aggravated, but it sure feels like a backhanded insult, you know? Like I am an invalid or something. These days I feel great about the fact that if I want a cookie, I will have one stinkin cookie, and it will be on plan. If I don't want a cookie enough to work it in, then I won't have the stupid cookie! So don't take that away from me and treat me like I can't make my own decisions about stupid cookies!!! Gah!
So, what is an appropriate response to someone who tries to "help" a bit too much? And the Keeping it a Secret thread is what ithought of right away and said "See! This is why people don't tell!"