Sorry about your kidney stone, Noodles. Get well soon.
I just wanted to thank you ladies, who gave me some advice a while ago on my DIL. She and I are starting to build a good relationship! Since I am at her house for nine hours I clean, and do laundry and any thing else that I can do to make her life easier. I have started praying for her every day and I can't believe what a difference it has made for me. I feel a love and respect for her that is growing over time. She talks to me for 20-30 minutes when she comes in from work in the evening. I am getting to know her as a person and we are learning to communicate on a personal level. She is not very demonstrative, but each day I touch her arm or pat her back and she is a lot more relaxed around me now. Thank you for helping me see that sometimes things are not as they appear and that she felt that she had to come on strong with me because she had been having to defend herself from an onslot of critizism from her MIL (my husbands mean ex). Now that she knows that I am not going to put her down and that I am respecting her wishes as the mother of Shawn, we are doing great!! Thanks, again!!
Have a good week, Chicks! Irish