I am "fatter" than her!
 

Perspective. I have wondered when looking at other's whether I looked as big as they are. When I looked in the mirror I saw the same person I had been looking at for years. Bigger size clothes, but I thought I looked okay. Then... a picture at work was unexpectedly taken of me and posted for informational reasons. I was standing training three of my male coworkers and I know exactly how "big" I think they are. I was bigger than all of them. I was shocked! Like catching yourself in a window. This motivated me to lose weight several years ago. Now... I am inching up again and struggling to get healthier. Let's not judge each other and ourselves by size, but support each of us on how healthy we are (or are getting!)

Thank you for posting this . I am 70 and going through this now.