Ladies, you all are taking the words right out of my mouth! Evenings are just the worst... Sometimes I think I've come totally unhinged, when I sit in front of the TV watching some mind-rotting nonsense while scarfing down everything that can't run faster than me. I mean really, what is that about?
My boyfriend lives 100 miles away, and he spends about half of each week with me at my house He's the kind of guy who eats ONLY to feed his body. He does not eat for pleasure, for emotions, or any other reason other than for fuel. Half the time he forgets to eat! Lemme tell ya, kids, it's really hard...

But the good side of that is that when he is here, I don't eat at night. Part of the reason, of course, is that I'm a closet eater and when he's here I don't eat cuz I don't want him seeing me do that. But another, healthier, reason is that I eat at night cuz I feel lonely. When he's here, the loneliness is gone - and so, less bingeing. Don't know how this pattern will change if/when we live together...
My other trouble spot is when I'm alone driving in my car. I can easily stop at a convenience store, load up on a mountain of junk food and snarf it all up before I get to my destination. Geesh...
So I've made a commitment to myself to not eat in front of the TV (when I'm alone) and to not eat in the car (when I'm alone). I'm hoping that putting the focus on circumstances & feeling my feelings, and off the food, will help me get a grip on my insane bingeing behavior.
But hey - I'm open to suggestions!