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  • Beautiful Wedesday
    Hi “Goldens” – Bobbi, thanks for the laugh. I loved all of them.

    Sun is shining here – supposed to be in the 80s this afternoon. Why do I have to be inside at work? Arghhh!! I shared with my supervisor yesterday that I’m thinking seriously about retiring next year. He was shocked and disappointed, and said hopefully you mean late next year. I couldn’t break it to him yet that I’m thinking March.

    I was so proud of myself last night. I got my hair trimmed, mowed the lawn, had a salad, put in laundry, walked 40 minutes and still got to bed by 10:00. Super Woman, that’s me.

    Ella - hope the office move went ok. Are you settled in?

    Jay Jay – Loved your story about driving in MA. I hate driving around cities in general, but Boston is unique for it’s challenges. Sounds like you had a terrific workout at Boot Camp - good for you!

    Have a great day!!

    Lyn
  • Hah! All so (unfortunately) true, Bobbi....all that deterioration, and yet I am actually ENJOYING this stage of my life tremendously. And now that we're all whipping these bods into shape, we'll enjoy it even more, yes?

    I am eating an orange that I paid $1.29 for. The ORANGE itself, not a pound of oranges - ONE orange. And there's hardly any juice in it. It's kinda dried out and yukky. But I WILL eat it, and I WILL (sorta) enjoy it, at that price! I also have a sandwich baggie of Fiber One cereal. It has just about a CUP of cereal in it. (I've learned my lesson the hard way.

    To answer your question, Lyn, NO, I have NOT "settled in" yet. I am still in transition. Yesterday, I told the mover-guys NOT to touch my computer, monitor, printer, etc., as I have TWO (not one, but TWO) proposals that I MUST get out today, and yesterday was pretty much a lost one because I had TWO (not one, but TWO) meetings, both of which lasted for about an hour and a half each, and the second of which was simply a reiteration of what was said in the first meeting, except to different people (and I wasn't even the presenter!!!!), so I pretty much sat through that meeting PO'd because of all the work I had waiting to do and couldn't do, because I had to sit through the SAME rhetoric for yet ANOTHER hour and a half! So, I FLY into work this morning - early, even - all set to shut my office door and attack those proposals. I get to my floor, and my office door is open, and my COMPUTER (and everything else that goes with it) is sitting on the FLOOR! They have removed my computer desk!!!! I swear I went screetching up the hall like a banshee until a couple of guys who work in the finance department ran off to look for a table to put my computer & stuff back on for me. So, now I'm in here, door closed, eating my brekkie and drinking a much-needed cup of coffee before plunging into the abyss of proposal-writing. (I have most of both of them done; I just need to do a little rewriting, editing, and packaging). So....um...Lyn....nuh-uh...I'm FAR, FAR and FAR-FAR from settled in. My new office, however, owing to the fact that I have yet to inhabit it, looks truly nice - desk (that you can actually see the top of), visitor's chairs with a nice table between and a very nice brass lamp with a very chic shade...a couple of nice plants. This will all change, of course, once Hurricane Ella moves in.
    Okay. I'm calming down, now. Retiring, Lyn? Gawd, how jealous I am! First Theresa with the new scale, now you planning to retire! I can't retire until I'm 90. By then my kids will all be in their sixties and seventies, and shouldn't need me - even to babysit, never mind for down payments on houses or lasr-minute airfare...
    Listen: here's a non-scale victory. (I think). Today, (Ta-dahhh!!!!) for the very first time in SEVERAL years now, I have worn JUST a jersey sort of top with a skirt to work. Typically, I ALWAYS wear SOME kind of jacket to cover up my middle. But lately, my waistline bulges seem to have decreased considerably, and I DON'T have any rolls pushing out through (the jersey) and looking disgusting. AND my jersey isn't all loose and baggy (the OTHER trick that I've used, THINKING that the bulges wouldn't show) like usual, either. It's <gulp> fairly fitted. Not tight like a corset or something, but definitely not loose and flowing, either. Of course I also have on a rather large paisely scarf that may provide a little coverage, but honestly, this is a HUGE bit of progress for me.
    Hiya Joannie, m'dear girl. Good stuff re: the pounds lost. I have refrained from weighing for the past week or so, and am thinking to wait another week. I've been feeling pretty good (see above) and if the scales don't show a good loss, I will definitely be bummed.

    Okay, okay. I will now commence to work. Have a glorious day, all my Golden Girlies!!!!!

    TTFN,

    Ella
  • Aw Bobby,

    thanks for the giggles.
    I need a good laugh every day. Like medicine to the soul.
    my hubby loved them, mostly the last one...

    You girls are good for that too. Good for the soul.


    I just got back from the Dr. I weighed in fully clothed at 168!

    167 at home in t-shirt and nothing else.

    this is the lowest I have been in years.

    I have 9 weeks till my 50 Th.
    Do you think I could loose 17 more by then? That would be so cool.
    150 pounds. I might see my feet for the first time in yrs. (while standing).



    Lyn
    that’s Grrrreat!
    retirement is wonderful. I just wish I could stay retired.
    Alas, Gas just hit $3.50++ here. Speedway here in town is $3.60!

    Wow, you sound like you were very busy last night. You should have worked off at least one pound!


    Ella,
    congrats on the non scale victory.
    Those are just as good as loosing weight.

    I think that those movers should have been slapped! after you told them please leave the desk!
    You will be so glad when Its all done. Then You can get a decorator. That should be a blast.
    If you have to work till 90, you should make it really YOURS. even put a mini fridge and microwave.
    Maybe a stationary bike…You will be working out at work.

    well got to fix lunch for Wayne. see ya later.
  • Hi everyone -- I actually had to go to a meeting today so wasn't able to get on until now -- don't they realize I have a morning routine??? Last night we had to attend a strata meeting -- oh the joys of owning a townhouse. The roofs need replacing so we had to vote on paying an $11K assessment -- geesh I just paid $20K three years ago to replace the roof on the family home -- sighs. Of course none of the "vocal" people there ever attend the annual meetings - which pissed me off -- oh well hard to soar with eagles when you live with turkeys. At least the meeting went so long I was no longer hungry so had very little to eat in the evening -- just looking on the positive side of things.

    Bobbi -- those were fabulous!!!!!!!

    Lyn -- busy girl -- you mowed the lawn and walked for 40 minutes -- talk about your own personal bootcamp!!!

    Ella - want me to come out and take a contract out on the movers or the people making you go to meetings (LOL see my first sentence). I am thrilled for your NSV -- I am feeling that way myself lately not seeing the bulges that used to reside around my middle. But I am scared of the scale - I am feeling so good and if I step on and see that I am the same or only down one pound I will be angry -- when I get angry or upset I tend to turn to food -- old stupid stupid habit. Right now I can't afford to put on even 5 pounds -- very few of my clothes will fit -- so there is incentive on its own.

    Theresa -- I am so thrilled for you -- huge CONGRATS on the weigh in - seeing you down almost 20 pounds is fabulous!!!
  • Me again!!! Just had to share this AWWW moment with my GOLDEN GIRLS (cause very few of my friends will get it LOL). My mom just called me to confirm that I am taking her to her appointment today and she mentioned that my son (her only grandchild) had come over to her place last night to do some handi work for her. We are very lucky that he inherited his father's handi abilities. As a thank you my mom took him out for a lovely dinner. He drove her to the restaurant and when he dropped her off in front of her condo building he stopped the truck and got out. She thought she had done something wrong with the truck door, but no my son said "its all good grandma I just wanted to get out and give you a hug" She was just thrilled -- over the last few years as my son moved out and became independant she has felt like she was losing touch. So even when the grandbabies grow up into 27 year old young men (or ladies) they still have time to remember their dear grandma's.
  • Joanne,

    That is so nice, I wish every young person would behave like your son.
    There is hope!
  • Good morning, my GOLDIE GIRLS!!!!!!!!! Yeppers, Jo-annie...I'm with you on the whole <ack!!!> scared to weigh myself business. I will not be going back to work again until next Wednesday. And how, you may ask, is that possible? Well, several reasons, actually...my eldest daughter (DD1???) had a partial hysterectomy yesterday, and I will drive down (@ an hour & a half)and spend the day with her today. I won't spend more time than that, frankly, because she is pretty well inundated with family members helping her. Her mo-in-law lives next door to her and is a registered nurse - has a master's degree in something-or-other having to do with medicine - and is the AUTHORITY on what my DD needs, etc., etc. And, since DD seems to have a particularly good relationship with the woman, it's not like she's being intrusive, or stepping on MY toes, you know? After all, DD is 38 years old - not a kid, and certainly has lived long enough, and far away enough to have grown independent of me. This is less true for her younger sisters, both of whom live in the same town that I do, but it IS true all the same, of her. AND her DH is very attentive, as are her sister-in-laws, father-in-law, and children, ages 12 and 16. When she was in hospital last month for tests, my other two DD's and I went down, and she had about 12 people in her hospital room, which wasn't optimum, to say the least. So, I'm going down (alone) today since I know her MIL, DH and in-laws will be at work, and the kids will be in school. I'll see what I can do, and be there if she needs me, and then leave before the rest arrive in the early evening hours.
    Okay. THEN, tomorrow, DH and I head up to the lakes region of New Hampshire to attend the wedding of some dear friends. We'll be there from Friday night through Monday morning. We've made reservations at a quaint little bed & breakfast, and since we BOTH seriously NEED a little down time, we're going to squeeze some in. I'm BRINGING my bike! (DH has a GM Sahara; needs the space for transporting paintings when he has gallery showings). Okay, and having said ALL THAT, my point was that I'm NOT going to weigh myself before we go, because if the scale is less friendly than I'd like, I will be bummed out, and feel unattractive and yukky all weekend. I have a nice outfit for the wedding and some nice casual clothes that I THINK look pretty good...so I'm NOT looking in any mirrors sideways, and I'm NOT weighing myself!
    BUT, Theresa, despite being a chicken on my own behalf, and afraid to weigh in, I am VERY proud of you!!!!! What a great job you're doing!!!! I just KNOW how much better you're feeling, and I'm so, so happy for you! Hah! A decorator for my office??? I wish!!!! Or not, actually. It's true that I spend seven hours a day there for the most part, and may well be working until I drop dead at ninety - or a hundred and ten - but my job (and my office) is SO not my life. It's okay. It's not the worst thing I could be doing, but if I could, I'd retire tomorrow, trust me. I would traipse around to antique dealers and flea markets and auctions and what-have-you looking for bargains, and then restore & resell them - preferably with coordinating pieces: I LOVE choosing a color scheme and then putting together just the right rug and drapes and accents and furnishings to make it all look perfect. And I would do a little sculpting, a lot of reading, a little gardening.... ah, well.
    But, as far as my office is concerned, I mostly WORK there, so it would be kind of like trying to make a sow's ear into a silk purse, if you know what I mean. I've got a lamp. That'll do. (I have to admit that if a nice 4x6 oriental rug fell into my lap to put in front of my desk, though, I'd be sorely tempted.)
    So, Lyn, I am insanely jealous of your retirement plans!!!! But glad for you at the same time. I talk about it, but everybody likes to point out to me that I'd very likely go mad if I didn't have a deadline to meet or inane and useless meetings to kvetch and complain about.
    I know Bobbi is running up and down those stairs at her MIL's burning off calories even as I sit here. Hi Bobbi!
    Lynn! Where are YOU??? (Oh, off on one of your jaunts if I recall correctly. Enjoy! And stick to your PLAN, girlie!!!)
    Thinking of you, too, Paula. Hope all continues to improve with dad.
    So, I'm going to take my bike ride, come back, have my bath, get dressed, and head down to see DD1. It's nice outside today, and tomorrow they're saying it may hit the 90's. Yikes!!!!

    Have a great day, GOLDEN GIRLIES!!!
    Ella
  • Oh, Jeeze, Jo-Annie. I meant to comment on your lovely son! I'm with Theresa on that one. Knowing that there are young people like that around is cause for hope. My DS has his gallant moments, too. Maybe we did something right, eh? Have a great weekend, my dear friend..

    Ella
  • Good morning,
    I just wanted to same something about the scale.

    I don't believe that I have lost the 3 pounds.

    There are two many scales.
    There is Curves, The dr's and here.

    The Scale here measured right between the other two.
    And I can be undressed when when I step on. So I can get a true weight.

    So... I just want to stick to one. my real weight in the am.

    I still Weigh 170 At Curves.

    But Thanks for the Congrats
    And I won't talk scales more. My dd is like you. She does not want to get on it.

    Getting on it motivates me. When I see a small loss... I know I am doing good. No... I am not pushing or judging you for not getting on.
    You do what works for YOU. That is the best.
  • Good Morning Girls!
    We have another rainy day here, we're so thankful. Our yard is just beautiful, all lush and green. Our garden is saying Thank you too! Today is my 62nd birthday and I'm sure looking forward to socal securty checks coming monthly. I've been retired from work for 9 years and it'll be fun to have some extra cash coming in.
    Hi to everyone, haven't had time to comment on the chats for quite awhile, summers are sooooo busy for us. Nice son Joanne, I agree with everyone, you certainly did something right in raising him.

    Have a great day everyone from the "Lurker".
  • Thanks for the sweet comments about my boy --- LOL I only have the one child and I hope we did things right. It was tough for him to lose his dad first to depression when he was 15 and then when his dad passed away he was only 20 -- it just wasn't fair. But he is a kind soul and I love him dearly -- even though I doubt he will ever make me a grandma -- its all good.

    BOBBI ---- Its my sister-in-law's birthday today too. My late husband was born in 1945 --- must have been a good year for great people!!!

    Ella -- the time off sounds good - enjoy taking the bikes and the time with your DD1. She is in good hands but as a daughter no matter who is taking care of me I always want my mom when I am not feeling well. Of course my mom won't come near me now if I have anything contagious -- she had her spleen removed last year and she just calls me and tells me to deal with it LOL.

    Theresa -- scales are a very personal thing and its truly best to stick with one as you have noticed. I have one girlfriend that is very successful with her weightloss and she weighs every single day --- I was successful last year only weighing once a month. Like Ella I react to gains or low losses in a negative way. Right now I am enjoying the way my clothes fit and how I am feeling and just know if I step on the scale and see little or no movement I will be upset. ARGHHHHH why couldn't I get the skinny gene?????
  • Quick note...
    Oh, Oh..raining in MN?? that means we're in for a wet weekend. We get your weather 1-2 days after you, Bobbi. But I planted half of my flowers last night - so rain is good for them. And by the way...

    Wow, retired 9 years....did you ever miss work? I really don't think I will.

    Lyn
  • Hello Girls,

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY BOBBI!!! We are here in PA. right now and will be here for at least a week. I think we will probably head back to MO around the 29th. then spend a week there. Here is a picture that I took getting ready to go over the Mississippi river in St. Louis, MO. I have a few other pictures of the river that I will try to upload too. These are the bridges that go over the river. The other picture is the Mississippi as we are going across the bridges. I have a couple more pictures that I took of a HUGE Cross that is along the highway in Illinois. I'll try to post those later this evening. I forgot how slow DIAL UP is!!!

    It sounds like everyone is doing really good on exercise and diet!! I wish my inlaws would decide that it isn't healthy to feed you everytime you turn around!!!! WOW!!! Everybody always has to have dessert after the meals too! I'm going to have to just BACK AWAY FROM THE TABLE!!!! I'mscared to see what I weigh now!

    Well, I will see about getting back on later. Everyone have a good day and I'll try to answer everyone tonight.

    Karen
  • Hi All,
    I found this board about a week ago and find it very interesting and entertaining (Hi Bobbi, how's the weather in So. MN?). You all seem like a wonderful group of girls. You appear to have similar things in common and I'm sure that is because we are all in the same age group (i.e. aging boomers with aging parents and in-laws, health concerns and grown children).

    Here is a little bit about myself:
    I am in my late 50's, in fact, as late as I can get without hitting the next big milestone. I live in a suburb of the largest city in MN with my hubby and two Yorkies. We have two grown children and one grandchild, who stays with us whenever her mom and dad are willing to part with her for a weekend. I retired (or so I thought) in March of 2006 and spent one glorious month home before they called and asked if I could come back temporarily until they found someone to fill the position I had left. As of today I work part-time on special projects, a lot of which can be done on my computer at home as I still have access to work email and web-based software (aaah, the age of technology). I don't mind working, in fact I had planned on finding something closer to my home where I could drive my car to the door and use it to run errands at lunch if needed. I was spending 1 1/2 to 2 hours a day (or longer) commuting and getting up at 5:30 a.m. to beat the traffic or taking an express bus and waiting in the snow/wind/rain etc. to catch it to and from downtown.

    I started out on 3FC back in February but lost my way. Dropped a few pounds counting calories then gained them back - plus more. Well, I am happy to say I have been able to shed those pounds again and am on track. Over the years I have tried many diets, Jenny Craig (lost 20 lbs.), WW, lost 15 pounds and became a life-time member, Nutri-systems (hated it but lost the weight), counting calories (slow but effective as long as I stayed away from carbohydrates), Atkins (OK, but not good for the long term). Does anyone remember that diet where you take apple cider vinegar and lecithin before your meals? Been there too. I am VERY carb-sensitive, and have found that when I was on Atkins a few years ago I not only did not have the cravings but my acid reflux completely disappeared until I started adding non-vegetable carbs back into my diet. So, here I am doing a modified version of Atkins that is very low in carbohydrates but has a lot of the good vegetables and protein and not so much fat. I am also going to have my husband get my bike off of the garage ceiling hangers so I can use it this summer.

    So, that is it in the proverbial nutshell. I know I need a place where I can come to get the support and encouragement I will need to shed this unsightly weight before my big 6-0.
  • Hi All!!! Can you BELIEVE how early it is???? I can't. DH SNORED half the night, and I have finally given up trying to sleep. The only redemptive aspect of the whole thing is that HE'S awake and up, too. Grrrrrrrrr. It's good, really, that we are essentially such courteous, civilized people, because if we weren't , I might very possibly have smothered him with a pillow at some point. Honestly, it's about the only complaint I have with him, which is, I suppose, pretty good, all things considered. My EX was such a beast. But that's a story for another place and time. Or not. Some things are best forgotten altogether.

    Lily, welcome to the GOLDEN GIRLIES!!!!! Sounds very much like we've all been down similar paths in life so far as our weight is concerned (and undoubtedly in many other ways as well) so by all means, jump right in and join our little party!!! I was on the Atkins diet for quite a long time some years back, and it worked wonderfully well for me - for about eight years, actually. I went on it after my son was born and I'd gained fifty pounds with the pregnancy. He weighed in at 9lbs, 14 oz., and I lost just about 10 pounds having him. Go figure. ANYWAY, I was always a meat lover and didn't much like vegetables or fruit, so Atkins was perfect for me. I am also addicted to chocolate & sweets (and BREAD - can't forget bread!!!) - well, to carbohydrates in general, I suppose. So cutting them out entirely was really my best bet. I was never able to - and probably still can't - just have ONE cookie, or a SLIVER of cake like some people. Once started, I could never stop until I was sick to my stomach, practically.
    I lost about 50 pounds doing Atkins, and stayed at "fighting weight" for seven years. Then, I was on vacation with the kids, took them out for ice cream one night, and they said "Gee, Mummy, you have NEVER had a hot fudge sundae, have you?" Well of COURSE I've had one, says I - just not in recent memory. It was amazingly easy to convince myself tha ONE little hot fudge sundae wasn't going to hurt me. Hah! I spent the following two weeks gorging myself on everything I hadn't eaten in the past seven years - fried clams, fried scallops, fried shrimp...fried EVERYTHING, not to mention everything sweet within a five-mile radius. Came back from vacation 15 pounds heavier, and my weight has been up and down ever since. I've lost as much as 20 pounds at a time, gained it back plus a few extra, etc., etc.

    THIS time around, I've made up my mind that it's now or never, and it's NOT going to be never!!! Every other time that I've tried to lose weight, I've tried doing it with Atkins, because I thought that was the only plan that would work for me. But over the past year or more, I've become less interested in eating red meat, and less interested in eating the huge amounts that I used to eat when I was on Atkins. I also quit smoking (I'd been smoking since I started at 28) which may well have had some effect on my taste buds. And, having quit smoking, I found myself more interested in exercise - so I asked DH to get me a mountain bike for my birthday in April, he did, and I've been riding it just about daily ever since. And enjoying fruit & veggies for the first time, ever.
    Hah! Me, me, me. As you've noted from your lurking, there are some teriffic people in our little group - all with their own stories and challenges and lives in different parts of the country - and out of it as well (Jo-annie is my very favorite "foreigner").
    I'm unlikely to be online this weekend - we're off to the New Hampshire woods, and neither DH nor I have laptops. We'll be staying in a quaint bed & breakfast which does, I think, have internet access, so I may pop on, but then again, may not have time as we're attending a friend's wedding. They're in our age group, and like us, it's their second time around, and we thought it would be fun to make a long weekend of it for the group of us. Should be a fun time.
    I WILL adhere to my eating plan, and I AM bringing my bike. Tell ME that's not real commitment!
    Have a great Memorial Day weekend, all you lovely GOLDEN GIRLIES !!!!!!!!
    Your gardens must be looking lovely and lush, Bobbi. Did you do something wonderful to celebrate your birthday? I hope so!
    GREAT hearing from you, Karen. The pictures are breathtaking. Please do send more as you are able.
    Glad you managed to eat that candy and not gain, Lyn. If that had been me, well, you KNOW where I would have gone with that. I'd still be munching!
    Theresa, trust the lowest number. That's my rule of thumb. The lowest is the realest and I DEFY anybody to say otherwise!
    Hope you're all planning a fun weekend, Lynn, Phyllis (wherever you are), Paula.. Hugs to all!

    TTFN,

    Ella