Thinking of you today,
Guac! HANG IN THERE!
Veggiedawg, I think tv shows (and our general culture today, with instragam photos etc.) way over-emphasize the role of exercise and under-emphasize the role of food management for weight loss and weight maintenance. I understand that's for the drama, because it is more exciting to film/photograph people pushing weights and sweating and grunting and being screamed at to do "JUST ONE MORE!!!!" than it is to film people quietly making a large salad with tons of vegetables and chickpeas for lunch (*yawn*).
But I find weight management it is almost ENTIRELY about food management -- and if you can exercise, too, well hey, that's GREAT for overall health and the mental/emotional bonuses you get from those cute little endorphins.
I used to exercise like a beast (or my version of a beast, at least, which was frequent double-digit runs plus gym time), and would be gaining weight.
Easily gaining weight SO FAST. Truth: I worked out harder when I was heavier than I ever do now. It wasn't until I learned that all my hard work and effort needed to go into making good food choices over and over and over and over again, and then over again,
every day, that I was able to get my act together.
It was so
tedious at first, and so
uncelebrated, all those daily little choices that added up to a day in a calorie deficit. Nobody cheers when you choose a reasonable lunch, so it isn't immediately as rewarding as coming home and bragging about how much time I'd spent running incline sprints. Plus you also have to choose a good breakfast, and will have to choose a decent dinner, too. I wanted a MEDAL and an award ceremony every time I made a good meal choice. I still do, lol. There is that need for constant motivation you mentioned, Veggiedawg, lol!
But I tell you, those minute-by-minute meal choices are what works for me. My favorite recommendation (not that anyone asked me) is to focus all the intensity that usually goes into exercising on food management, and then exercise
just for fun. Particularly right at the beginning when a person is just starting to make the changes that will become a long-term lifestyle. And make your exercise more of an enjoyable hobby than a torture session with angry Mistress SweatSock. Choose something you
like. It doesn't have to be extreme to be effective at making you feel good.
Sorry I just wrote a book on this topic. I have feels about it, so many feels.
